1) m/m isn't that prominent. It's actually rare to find that a fandom is more slash-oriented than het-oriented. LJ is one of the few slash-oriented places on the net. Once you leave here, you will often find it a different story.
2) I disagree the male get more attention if there is consistent female presence. Those fandom tend to be more het or split overall. Most slash-dominant fandom are usually series with not a very strong female presence in the first place. But
3) You don't have the right to shame anyone for their shipping habits or kinks. They may not get their sexual pleasure or exploration from fandom but somewhere else.
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2) I disagree the male get more attention if there is consistent female presence. Those fandom tend to be more het or split overall. Most slash-dominant fandom are usually series with not a very strong female presence in the first place. But
3) You don't have the right to shame anyone for their shipping habits or kinks. They may not get their sexual pleasure or exploration from fandom but somewhere else.