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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-10-29 02:12 pm

[ SECRET POST #1761 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1761 ⌋


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Early because there's a snowstorm here, not sure if power will stay on. Better early than late!


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[identity profile] ariseishirou.livejournal.com 2011-10-30 01:14 pm (UTC)(link)
It works both ways. assumption anyways.

Yes indeed it does. I've seen a number of men use feminine usernames or allow people to assume they're women in female-dominated spaces, such as slash fandom. Or as you said, craft hobbies. I don't blame them. Sometimes women in female-dominated spaces can be downright vicious.

But how does this in any way negate or invalidate the experiences and desires of women in male-dominated spaces who go the opposite route? Bullying is not a zero sum game. Where did anyone say that this was a one-sided affair? It isn't. But we're talking about what the OP was talking about; which was in particular a male-dominated space.

Or are those men who allow women to assume they're female in craft hobbies or LJ RPs also "fucking stupid" and "putting themselves on a pedestal"?