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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-10-31 06:56 pm

[ SECRET POST #1763 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1763 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Somebody's been spamming the submissions post with old secrets, apparently (for what actual purpose, I'm not sure). Just give me a heads up and I'll take the repeats down.

Secrets Left to Post: 08 pages, 200 secrets from Secret Submission Post #252.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 1 - omgiknowthem ], [ 1 2 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
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tw: sexual abuse, transphobia, victim blaming, suicidal thoughts

(Anonymous) 2011-10-31 11:43 pm (UTC)(link)
when i was molested by my doctor for being trans and i tried talking to a support group online, no one believed me. apparently "someone in that position would never do that" (because teachers never bully their students, police never fuck up, and parents never harm their children either, right? authority figures are fucking flawless) or i was "overreacting because i was turned on." i, a ftm, dealt with my female obgyn fingering me* and no one cared. not only that, but when i told her that i was trans (no hormones or anything, btw), she blamed me for my health problems (i was 13! i was pretty much a crossdresser at the time) and treated me like i was delusional. no one even complained about my doctor's transphobia being bullshit or anything, all they read was "MAN WAS FONDLED AND TURNED ON, NOT ABUSE" i guess.

4chan, or at least the /adv/ice board, comforted me, gave me a few phone numbers to call, and only one(!!!) person was an asshole, but a few anons told them off for being a prick.

it hurt so much that not one person believed me in that support forum. i went into a depression and felt a little suicidal after that, and i don't know what would've happened if i didn't cry to 4chan.

(* - i know, it sounds weird, but i definitely know the difference between "a professional examining my vagina and moving her finger slightly" and "a sick fuck rubbing her finger against my god damn g-spot" i've masturbated before, i think i know what the fuck happened. plus, my second obgyn examining me was nowhere near that invasive and awkward.)

Re: tw: sexual abuse, transphobia, victim blaming, suicidal thoughts

[identity profile] piratesswoop.livejournal.com 2011-11-01 02:26 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry you had to go through that anon <3

Re: tw: sexual abuse, transphobia, victim blaming, suicidal thoughts

(Anonymous) 2011-11-01 03:00 am (UTC)(link)
you don't need to apologize but thank you anyway. ♥

Re: tw: sexual abuse, transphobia, victim blaming, suicidal thoughts

[identity profile] oflittlebrain.livejournal.com 2011-11-01 02:27 am (UTC)(link)
WOAH i am so sorry that that happened to you, that is fucking insane. and yeah, in that case, thank god 4chan was there.

Re: tw: sexual abuse, transphobia, victim blaming, suicidal thoughts

(Anonymous) 2011-11-01 03:03 am (UTC)(link)
like i said to the person above, you don't need to apologize, but thank you.

yes, thank god they were there. at least there was someone who cared, even if they were just pretending. i considered going to a livejournal community, but i had a feeling that i wouldn't get much sympathy here either.

Re: tw: sexual abuse, transphobia, victim blaming, suicidal thoughts

[identity profile] insanenoodlyguy.livejournal.com 2011-11-01 04:41 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think they were pretending. Something that horrible, there's going to be people who sympathize. Even on horrible websites, we find excuses not to be horrible sometimes.

Here. I offer a hug in appropriate meme form.

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Re: tw: sexual abuse, transphobia, victim blaming, suicidal thoughts

(Anonymous) 2011-11-01 04:42 am (UTC)(link)
thank you. ♥ ♥ it means a lot.

Re: tw: sexual abuse, transphobia, victim blaming, suicidal thoughts

[identity profile] insanenoodlyguy.livejournal.com 2011-11-01 05:32 am (UTC)(link)
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