[ SECRET POST #1775 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1775 ⌋


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Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 2 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 - too big ], [ 0 - hit/ship/spiration ], [ 0 - omgiknowthem ], [ 0 - take it to comments ], [ 0 - repeats ]
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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

OP? velvet_mace is crazy. Please disregard everything they say here.

velvet_mace? Just because you can't trust people unless they spill their entire life stories to you doesn't mean the rest of us have that problem. Please stop trying to make other people as neurotic as you are.

[(Anonymous)]

usually velvet mace is one of the most sensible people on here, and even though I don't really agree with what she's saying here, maybe she's just been with her SO for so long that she can't imagine other people not sharing something important to them with their own SO

[raichu100.livejournal.com]

Wow. Interesting that you'll go bashing a person openly for her opinions while doing it anonymously.

Douche much?

[orion117.livejournal.com]

Gee, who should the OP take more seriously? Someone who shares her opinion openly, or someone who hides behind anonymity to take shots at another person? If you disagree with what she said, then why not share your own opinion instead of maligning someone else for sharing hers?

Oh, wait, that might be constructive. Never mind.

[velvet-mace.livejournal.com]

Well apparently I know an anon who can entirely miss my point. :D

[urplesquirrel.livejournal.com]

It's amazing to me what a hard time people seem to be having understanding you. Let me see if I can sum up in simple terms: If you feel the need to actively hide your hobbies (whatever they may be, fandom or not) from your SO, that indicates a lack of trust and is an issue that needs to be worked on. Is that pretty much what you meant? Makes sense to me, and I agree.

I really don't understand why people aren't getting this point.

[velvet-mace.livejournal.com]

That's what I thought I was saying. But apparently according to these people knowing your S.O.s hobbies and loves is the same as reading over their shoulder 24/7, and we really shouldn't want to know anything about the person we spend our lives with.

[urplesquirrel.livejournal.com]

Exactly. I'd want to know what my SO's hobbies are, even if it's something I don't share. Does he blow off steam by playing first person shooters and naming the NPCs after his bosses? Does he watch the history channel? Does he practice reiki?

None of these are things I do or have any interest in doing, nor would any of them make or break a relationship, but it would bug me if he felt the need to actively hide any of these from me.

[urplesquirrel.livejournal.com]

At what point was she saying that you need to know your SO's entire life story? She's just saying that if you feel the need to actively hide your hobbies from your SO, there are probably trust issues there that you need to work on. I agree with her on this.

Also, you're a douchebag.