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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-11-12 03:40 pm

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[identity profile] amph87.livejournal.com 2011-11-13 03:55 am (UTC)(link)
Did you actually read my comment because I did state that the more realistic version of my idea wouldn't FORCE people in any way. Parents would simply get financial support if they consulted with a professional about their baby plans and went to parenting class. Does that still sound bad to you.

(Anonymous) 2011-11-13 04:06 am (UTC)(link)
Actually, yes, it is. If you're poor and you need the money, you're forced into classes that you don't want simply for the financial aid. That's what we call extortion. Pure and simple. Rich people don't need the benefit.

[identity profile] amph87.livejournal.com 2011-11-13 04:18 am (UTC)(link)
Well. I guess I can only agree that this model could work in my country, but not in yours.

(Anonymous) 2011-11-13 10:05 am (UTC)(link)
But why wouldn't you want a free parenting class to, you know, help you be a better parent, expecially if you'd get financial aid after it? What would you lose?

(Anonymous) 2011-11-13 06:34 pm (UTC)(link)
Because it's assuming that you're going to be a default bad parent unless you take these classes.

(Anonymous) 2011-11-13 06:58 pm (UTC)(link)
AYRT ...No, it's assuming that pretty much everyone could be a better parent and that parents(-to-be), like all people, are imperfect human beings. Sure, some need less help than others, but even so, what's wrong with revising what you think you already know? Or learning something completely new that might have never even occurred to you otherwise? I'd think it's better than raising children by trial and error. "Whoops, you should't hold a baby like that or feed that to children? My bad, I'll do better with the next kid!"

Sometimes I really wonder if some people are looking for a reason to be offended.