[ SECRET POST #1775 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1775 ⌋


Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.


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Comments

[velvet-mace.livejournal.com]

If you share all your online activities with your husband, that's great. But please don't assume that they way you've structured your relationship is the default for everyone else.

See here's the exaggeration and where you are missing my point.

Knowing a persons hobbies is not the same as hovering over their shoulder. A hobby is an important part of who a person is, and as people who are closest to each other, your S.O. and you should know what each other's hobbies are.

Knowing hobbies doesn't mean hovering while she does it. Doesn't mean being involved with them. Doesn't mean knowing every little detail. I just means knowing the hobby exists and is something she enjoys. Hobbys are by definition important past times, a significant part of their life, not just something a person does randomly for a minute or two and then moves on.

The OP hasn't even shared this hobby, a hobby that's gone beyond just casually lurking to actually writing, which as a writer, I know takes a fair amount of time. It's important to who she is, therefore, he should know it exists, and she needs to know that she won't be judged poorly for having it. And she needs to do that before they marry.