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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-11-19 03:38 pm

[ SECRET POST #1782 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1782 ⌋


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(Anonymous) 2011-11-20 01:18 am (UTC)(link)
I'm curious (and I mean this honestly, not rudely) as to how lube/prep would be required for non-penetrative sex. Vaginal and anal penetrative, yes, since like I said, not everyone has loose and wet orafices (if you'll pardon the crudity), but... if there's no penetration... what are you prepping and where are you putting the lube?!

[identity profile] mirai-gohan.livejournal.com 2011-11-20 02:41 am (UTC)(link)
Even if all you're doing is rubbing/jerking someone off, the friction can be pretty...unpleasant if you're not slick. So sometimes lube can be helpful even with only surface contact, as it were, happening.

Plus, when I hear "prep", what I generally think of is foreplay in general--making sure the other person is actually aroused and ready for contact, rather than just jumping straight to getting each other off. So for me, say, when I think of "prep" in terms of nonpenetrative sex, I mostly mean (possibly TMI?) the kissing and nongenital touching involved with making sure my girlfriend is wet enough and aroused enough that it won't just be painful or unpleasant when we actually go for the genital touching, y'know? Prep, to me, applies to the entire body, not just to making sure one person's orifice is loose and wet enough for fingers/cocks/toys/tongues/whatever they'll be penetrating with (if you'll also pardon the crudity XD).

That's...sort of a long answer. And it probably hinges largely on my experiences and my interpretation of terms. But that's what I meant, anyway. ^^

(Anonymous) 2011-11-20 03:07 am (UTC)(link)
Ah, yeah I wasn't putting the word prep on par with foreplay or your answer would have made a lot more sense. XD

And I forgot about handjobs/etc when I was thinking about lube, though I remembered it when I commented up there. I think NaNo is eating my brain. XD

[identity profile] mirai-gohan.livejournal.com 2011-11-20 06:08 am (UTC)(link)
Oh man, NaNo will do that. I feel you. XDD No worries.

(Anonymous) 2011-11-20 06:17 am (UTC)(link)
re: handjobs: this is one of the acts where uncut men generally have it easier than circumcised men. That's one of the things that the foreskin is FOR--providing some extra give and sensitivity and movement, and directing pre-cum towards lubrication purposes.

[identity profile] ianthine9.livejournal.com 2011-11-20 02:45 am (UTC)(link)
handjobs are much easier with lube. Hence why most guys have a tissue box and lotion next to their bed.