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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-11-24 03:29 pm

[ SECRET POST #1787 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1787 ⌋


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[identity profile] lipstickcrisis.livejournal.com 2011-11-24 09:57 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't really have any opinion about any of this 'cause, hey, whatever floats anyone's boat in fiction or reality is their business, but I do just have to pop in here and ask: you really don't consider calling some frigid an insult? I'm genuinely curious. Even if you personally don't consider it an insult, you don't see how society as a whole considers the concept a bad thing?

[identity profile] choffman.livejournal.com 2011-11-24 10:03 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm a psych major lol. So, while I realize contextually that it can be a gendered insult to call a woman frigid, I also can't assume OP is female as they've given no indication.

I don't consider it an insult because frigidity does exist, and sexual therapy exists because of it. In this context (not knowing the gender of the poster and already having a discussion of preference) I don't think it consitutes an insult so much as an observation.

(Anonymous) 2011-11-24 10:10 pm (UTC)(link)
I don't think it consitutes an insult so much as an observation.

Yeah, to go with your harmless "~you sound like a virgin" observation above, amirite?

You're a psych major and you can tell shit like this from fandom secrets? Amazing. What a talent. I think you'd assume my mother never saw a dick in her lifetime.

[identity profile] choffman.livejournal.com 2011-11-24 10:19 pm (UTC)(link)
All right then, please do explain to me how OP equating realistic dirty talk with crassness, mistaking sweet nothings for "goopy" dirty talk (which isn't dirty talk at all, honestly), and calling it OOC doesn't lend itself to that interpretation?

Not knowing what the concept of talking dirty is, and then saying it's unrealistic for people to talk during sex except in a "crass" manner?

I'm interested to hear how you think that isn't either a huge misconception from lack of experience or a general distaste for sexuality. Please enlighten me.

[identity profile] cowgirlmaxwell.livejournal.com 2011-11-25 02:20 am (UTC)(link)
I'm a psych major lol

Why don't you just shut up and go study a real science then?

[identity profile] billybobfred0.livejournal.com 2011-11-25 06:03 am (UTC)(link)
So, wait, gendered insults are okay if directed at guys?