[ SECRET POST #1787 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1787 ⌋


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 40 secrets from Secret Submission Post #255.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeats ]
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Comments

[yahalomay.livejournal.com]

It sounds like you're just very open and assertive about your preferences, and not really into having to sit through (lie through) things you're not interested in. Less "uptight" and more "opinionated". Of course, identify any way you want, I just feel you're not uptight in the traditional way that's being referenced in the discussions further up (i.e. frigid).

I think it's cool that you have that conversation straight-up with your new partners, so you both know how you can best please the other, and no one accidentally does anything that makes the other person think "Well... that's a turn off". That one guy does seem like he really wasn't listening at all though!

[micromyni.livejournal.com]

I'd like to think it's because I'm opinionated and not because I'm frigid. I'm normally very relaxed and tolerant, but intimacy is one thing I have a very low tolerance for what I will put up with that I don't like. I will put forth the effort and try things the other person likes that I'm "meh" about, but dirty talk is just one of those no-nos. It's not like I'm uncompromising! XD

Believe me, before I established that conversation I had sex a lot less often because none of them seemed to know what they were doing unless they stumbled on it by accident. So I eventually decided to cut out the searching for the sensitive bits and ask them straight out. The quality of the sex immediately improved. XD Most of the people I've bedded have had no problems with it, besides the guy mention above, of course. He turned out to have been a closet asshole, so no real loss there.