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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-11-25 04:02 pm

[ SECRET POST #1788 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1788 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Star Trek: The Next Generation]


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[Avril Lavigne; Miho Fukuhara; Supercell]


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06. [repeat]


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[Doctor Who]


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12. [repeat]


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[Assassin's Creed]


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[Puss In Boots]


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[Parenthood]


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[Supernatural]


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[Mortal Kombat]


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[Greek Myths (Hermes), Allstate (Mayhem)]


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22. [SPOILERS for something, OP did not specify]



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24. [SPOILERS for modern warfare 3]



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25. [SPOILERS for Marble Hornets]



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26. [SPOILERS for Pandora Hearts]



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27. [SPOILERS for Dexter]



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28. [SPOILERS for Alien Nine Emulators ]



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29. [SPOILERS for Batman: Arkham City]



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30. [TRIGGER WARNING for pedophilia]

[Chrono Crusade]


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31. [TRIGGER WARNING for incest]



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32. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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33. [TRIGGER WARNING for eating disorders]



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34. [TRIGGER WARNING for abuse]



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35. [TRIGGER WARNING for eating disorders]



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[House]

36. [TRIGGER WARNING for depression/suicide]



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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #255.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 2 - too big ], [ 1 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Re: How do you even cope in real life?

(Anonymous) 2011-11-26 04:12 pm (UTC)(link)
So what?

Even if he were literally the only disabled person in the world who felt hurt when people used the word (and he's not), how is it hurting you to at least try not to say it around him? Why go out of your way to deliberately offend someone?

Re: How do you even cope in real life?

(Anonymous) 2011-11-27 12:04 am (UTC)(link)
I'm the only disabled person in the world who is offended by the word "literally" and so that means YOU are the bigot! Yes, even though you just heard about it this moment and I'm the only one offended, this makes you the bigot.

Also, the word "orange" is offensive because I'm sure it refers to the color of my vomit.

If you try to use "orange" ever, even in reference to the fruit, you are a bigot.

Re: How do you even cope in real life?

(Anonymous) 2011-11-27 05:51 pm (UTC)(link)
Apples to grapes comparison, much?

There's a rather significant difference between things that are offensive to entire groups and things that are offensive to lone individuals. Similarly, there's a difference between common triggers which people can reasonably be expected to know they should warn for or avoid using and idiosyncratic personal triggers which people can't be expected to know about in advance but can choose to work around once they know it's an issue for the people they're communicating with.

Bigotry doesn't even enter into the picture, just basic decency. In a world where 'lame' wasn't currently still used for people with disabilities and was only regarded as hurtful by one person, it'd still be kind of shitty to use the word around that person after they've told you it hurts. Avoiding 'lame', or 'spastic', or 'bitchy' or whatever word you don't think is actually oppresive for the sake of someone on a comm you frequent (or or*nge for the sake of a probable troll) generally takes far less effort and will end in better moods all around than getting into a huge argument over it.