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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-12-05 07:52 pm

[ SECRET POST #1798 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1798 ⌋


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Secrets Left to Post: 08 pages, 196 secrets from Secret Submission Post #257.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 1 - hit/ship/spiration ], [ 0 - repeats ]
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(Anonymous) 2011-12-06 01:27 am (UTC)(link)
Honestly, whenever it comes to cosmetic surgery, I think a lot of it's about confidence and self-esteem. If a person gets a nose job because they're unhappy with the way their nose looks and feel self-conscious and uncomfortable, and the nose job helps them feel more confident, makes them feel like they have the nose they were always 'supposed' to have? Then that's the most important thing.

I think a lot of people forget that cosmetic surgery is about how you feel as much as how you look. If you're looking at a friend every day for years and they suddenly have a differently shaped nose, chances are you'll be resistent to it because we're always resistent to change. And while there's a big difference between making a secret like this and actually talking to somebody you're close to who's had surgery, I have seen people tell friends that their old nose was better than their new one. It's as if they forget that the surgery isn't about them, it's about the person who had it, and they don't seem to comprehend that they've just completely undermined the point of the surgery, which is to help somebody feel better about themselves. :(