[ SECRET POST #1801 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1801 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Venture Brothers]


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03.
[Batman]


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04.
[It's Not My fault I'm Not Popular]


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05.
[Ray Force]


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06.
[The Future I Whisper to You/Stargate Atlantis]


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07.
[Terry Pratchett's Going Postal]


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08.
[Code Geass]


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09.
[Gokusen]


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10.
[Code Geass]


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11.
[Alison Brie/How I Met Your Mother]


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12.
[The Vampire Diaries]


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13.
[Final Fantasy X]


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14.
[Supernatural]


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15.
[Community]


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16.
[Martin Solveig]


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17.
[Clocktower series]


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18.
[Winnie the Pooh]


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19.
[Supernatural]


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20.
[Mighty Morphin' Power Rangers]


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21.
[The Sing-Off]


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22.
[Oglaf]


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23.
[Strangers with Candy]


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24.
[Supernatural]


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25.
[The Lion King]


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26.
[S-CRY-ed]


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27.
[Bones]


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28.
[Fate/Zero]


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29.
[A Christmas Carol]


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30.
[Sequential Art]


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31.
[ZUN/Jun'ya Ota]


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32.
[Diablo 2]


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33.
[Friends]


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34.
[Winter Soldier #1]


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35.
[Supernatural, Florence + the Machine]


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36.
[Victorious]


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37.
[Easy A]


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38.
[The Vampire Diaries]


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39.
[The Vampire Diaries]


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40.
[Holly Black, Spiderwick Chronicles]


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41.
[Monkey Island]


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42.
[The Vampire Diaries]


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43.
[Kurokami/Black God]


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44.
[Eden of the East]


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Notes:

Rec meme on Saturday, then!

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 050 secrets from Secret Submission Post #257.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - personal attack ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

ayrt

[(Anonymous)]

I'm glad I could help - it was also nice for me to hear that someone else felt similarly about such body issues. The whole "you haven't had sex, how do you know you won't like it" argument is pretty annoying, because to be fair people should also ask "if you've never had sex, how do you know you want it?" to the sex-inclined virgins, and they don't. I think a relationship without sex or physical relations entirely must be difficult, as romance and lust seem to go hand in hand for most people, but it sounds like you would be open to physical relations as long as they don't focus on the vagina. That leaves open a whole range of sexual activities you could do without feeling disgust, were you prepared to do them for the sake of your partner, who should understand if its a strong enough relationship. Heck, I imagine many would even appreciate your willingness to be the pleasure-giver.

I can't offer LJ friendship I'm afraid, as I'm too much of a lurker and can't even remember my account details - but might I suggest an asexuality forum as a place for you to talk candidly to individuals who are less likely to judge, and more likely to understand? I'd recommend aven (asexuality.org) or there's asexuality.livejournal.com?

Re: ayrt

[(Anonymous)]

And I can't go un-anon for cowardice. It's a real tragedy, our friendship-not-to-be. I'm just glad that we got to talk at all :)

I'm definitely taking what the [sane] people in this thread have said to heart, and I think I really do need to see someone about this. It's always been at the back of my mind, and even having gone to therapy a few times I never brought it up because I thought it was just one of those things that didn't matter. But recently, it's really been getting to me (maybe because I'm older) and I'll do my best to get to a point where I can at least accept my body. Thank you for your kind words. Have a wonderful life!