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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-12-18 03:59 pm

[ SECRET POST #1811 ]

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(Anonymous) 2011-12-18 10:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes.

Because we're just base animals, with absolutely no ability to effect, or shift our perceptions of situations we find ourselves in, and how we react to them.

(Anonymous) 2011-12-18 11:06 pm (UTC)(link)
Hmmm. And of course, we always have absolute control over our emotions and our ability to react to them in a measured, restrained manner; we never let our feelings get the better of us. We're all brain and no heart at all.

[identity profile] amyrat151.livejournal.com 2011-12-19 04:23 am (UTC)(link)
Base animals we may not be but we are animals. Intense emotional situations can and do happen, sometimes in front of others and there isn't much we can do to stop it. For example if anyone gets a call that a beloved family members has died, I'm sure some tears would leak out no matter who you are or where you are.

[identity profile] relmneiko.livejournal.com 2011-12-19 10:18 am (UTC)(link)
If you had read the anon's comments you'd know they made exceptions for serious situations like death of a loved one.

[identity profile] intrigueing.livejournal.com 2011-12-19 05:38 am (UTC)(link)
LOL. Oh my god, I can't believe I'm actually seeing these words and they're not coming from a shittily-written Vulcan on one of the lamer episodes of Voyager. Oh my GOD. :D :D :D You're not serious, right? You're, like, trolling or something right? C'mon! You're making me laugh way too hard to be expressing an honest opinion.

But if you're not, then how about "shifting" your fucking "perceptions" in order to "react" with a bit of fucking empathy and compassion for other people? Oh wait, right, that means YOU'D have to put in effort, instead of other people. And *you're* talking about selfish.

[identity profile] relmneiko.livejournal.com 2011-12-19 10:20 am (UTC)(link)
I don't see how I'm supposed to have sympathy for people who cry over every little thing, and if I don't I'm a jackass.

(Anonymous) 2011-12-19 02:39 pm (UTC)(link)
What is "every little thing"?
You realize that there are no rules which situation should make you cry and which situation shouldn't?
For some people crying is important to deal with a certain situation.
Everyone has different ways to deal with shit and not everyone is the same. To some people losing an item might be incredibly tear-jerking. Others only cry at deaths. Some don't cry at deaths at all.

I think it's really stupid to say "it's okay to cry at a death but it's not okay to cry on something lesser". All people are different and luckily we're no machines.
If someone's crying you're free to offer them sympathy or not. But going around saying what kind of crying is acceptable and what kind is not indeed makes you look like a big jackass and you surely did that kind of shit in this thread *shrugs*