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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-12-23 07:20 pm

[ SECRET POST #1816 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1816 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Mia Rose]


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[Les Miserables]


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[Cinderella Monogatari]


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[Merlin]


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[Chuck]


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[Predator]


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[Silent Hill]


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[Angel]


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[Rooster Teeth]


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[Doctor Who]


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[Fall Out Boy/Patrick Stump and TGWTG/Luke Mochrie]


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[Phelous]


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[Uncharted]


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30. [SPOILERS for Boardwalk Empire]



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31. [SPOILERS for Once Upon A Time]



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32. [SPOILERS for Homestuck]



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33. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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34. [TRIGGER WARNING for suicide]



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35. [TRIGGER WARNING for self-harm]



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36. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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37. [TRIGGER WARNING for suicide]



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[identity profile] fscom.livejournal.com 2011-12-24 12:58 am (UTC)(link)
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[identity profile] kallanda-lee.livejournal.com 2011-12-24 01:21 am (UTC)(link)
Please, please talk to SOMEONE. If you do not trust your doctor, find someone you can confide in. it can be such a relief to put your pain into words. *Hugs*, OP. Good luck, and don't give up! There is light at the end of the tunnel, even if it does not seem like that now.

[identity profile] stella-down.livejournal.com 2011-12-24 01:23 am (UTC)(link)
talking to your doctor IS the adult way to deal with it on your own. you spend fifteen minutes in the doctor's office - the rest of it is all you.

[identity profile] nochi_san.livejournal.com 2011-12-24 01:27 am (UTC)(link)
This. It takes an amazing amount of courage to admit you need help, and even more to follow through and get what you need. It's the exact opposite of childish or weak.

Best of luck, OP.

[identity profile] formula-410.livejournal.com 2011-12-24 01:56 am (UTC)(link)
This a thousand times over. It is not childish to ask for help, especially with something like suicidal thoughts. It is a hard fight, but it will be even harder without help. Please talk to someone, if not your doctor.
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[identity profile] reynardine.livejournal.com 2011-12-24 02:24 am (UTC)(link)
Exactly this. It's childish to think that you have to handle things on your own. Adults get help when they need it! And what previous commenter stated--if you don't trust your doctor, confide in somebody.

[identity profile] rosehiptea.livejournal.com 2011-12-24 05:54 am (UTC)(link)
So much this.

[identity profile] fm-gatekeeper.livejournal.com 2011-12-24 10:34 am (UTC)(link)
I just started going to counseling after dropping out of school to deal with my social anxiety problems, and yeah so much this.

[identity profile] abominablebebop.livejournal.com 2011-12-24 03:11 am (UTC)(link)
It's not crazy. The Brainbent author has experience with this stuff - he gives some great advice.

Spoilers, btw, but he'll tell you to get professional help. There's no shame in that, OP. You don't have to do this alone. Good luck!! <333

[identity profile] insanenoodlyguy.livejournal.com 2011-12-24 04:30 am (UTC)(link)
I gotta say though, people are relying overmuch on this person.

Don't get me wrong, they do indeed give some great advice.

But a fanfiction writer on the internet shouldn't have to deal with this kind of pressure.

[identity profile] kryptoncat.livejournal.com 2011-12-24 03:12 am (UTC)(link)
Please talk to someone, OP. No one deserves to face horrible situations alone, and definitely not you. Don't fall into lies; even if it doesn't feel that way, there are people who care and can help.

(Anonymous) 2011-12-24 03:26 am (UTC)(link)

[identity profile] tigerdreams.livejournal.com 2011-12-24 05:12 am (UTC)(link)
Someone close to me has been struggling with similar feelings for the past few months, and based on that I'm asking you, PLEASE talk to someone. It's not "childish" or "weak" to realize when you need help; taking the step to reach out to someone and ask for that help takes courage. If your doctor doesn't know that something's wrong, he can't help you find ways to make it better, and what you're talking about is the sort of thing that no one should have to go through alone. If you had a friend who told you they felt like this, you'd tell them to get help, wouldn't you? The same applies to you. Talk to someone, please. Don't try to deal with this alone.

[identity profile] mika-kun.livejournal.com 2011-12-24 05:55 am (UTC)(link)
Getting help is the adult way to deal with this. Please talk to your doctor. I hope everything works out for you.

pOSTER ANON, tHIS IS FOR YOU,

(Anonymous) 2011-12-24 06:03 am (UTC)(link)
http://brainbent.tumblr.com/post/14710201905/anonymous-asked-tavros-im-not-sure-if-im-sick
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[personal profile] cleverthylacine 2011-12-26 12:13 pm (UTC)(link)
Part of dealing with things like an adult is recognising that some problems are too big for one person to deal with alone, and making the decision to go and get the help you need. Nobody should have to deal with suicidal thoughts alone, and asking for help with them doesn't make you less of a grown-up but more of one.