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fandomsecrets2007-07-03 06:07 pm
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[ SECRET POST #179 ]
⌈ Secret Post #179 ⌋
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What i meant was, yes, it IS mainly part of the OOC and chats, but you kind of have to be watching the OOC comm if you're going to participate fully. And most people I'd imagine would wanna be part of the chats. I still lurk, and i notice theres stuff that does leak into the actual RP.
I did not mean to make assumptions, but that's just what it FEELS like to me. Like unless you start spewing /o/ /o/ /o/ all over, you don't feel like you fit in. It's not like I think they're trying to be that way, but my main fear about going back to the RP is feeling like I'll have to work to be able to fit in... like I'd have to put on a similar personality to that of everyone else in the RP.
Sorry for rambling, but I have a sinking feeling you're looking at me with dissaproving eyes.
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OOC Comm = Announcements. Activities. Planning. Discussing. Talking to members outside of their respective characters.
OOC Chat = Where we go and talk to each other. People become friends, people will probably want to RP with people they're more familiar with. It's just what they do. The chat is open for anyone to come in. You just have to give the AIM name to someone you know.
You lurk but you never post, yes, there's some things in the chat that come out in the OOC comm but otherwise it's not really a big deal? It's just friends talking to each other. YOU DON'T HAVE TO GO /O/ TO FIT IN. Just be yourself, of course it takes work to fit in, you have to be friendly and TALK TO PEOPLE. You don't have to be a clone, you just have to be ACTIVE, RESPECTFUL, and FRIENDLY.
I'm peeved off because you're making these assumptions that we're all crowd followers when you're never in the chats, you're never participating, you're "afraid" to RP because you have to work doubly hard to fit in? I don't understand that, because if you want to be in the RP you're rping for yourself. You make friends a long the way but if you're always lurking it's not going to happen. :/
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So what if I'm afraid? You know me. Of course I'm going to feel overwhelmed in a group of people using terms and names and jokes I don't understand. I apoligize that my own fear has led me to make assumptions for fears and things that are clearly my fault.
Though as a confession.. i never RPed for myself anyway I guess. I only wanted to be in the RP because you were there, but I guess it was too much for me. Sorry, please don't be mad.
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I'm not mad. I just don't get why you would join an RP because of me. I'm boring, you should be there having fun. Not so you can feel inappropriately out of the group. You know?
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There's not much to get. I like you and I wanted to have something to relate with you. Though the whole notion of doing something cus of someone else sounds shallow, looking back on it. I hope you don't judge all my actions to be with the same intentions!
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I kinda want to throttle you because you should do things for yourself and your own happiness, that's how other people get happy around you too! But it's okay.
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why do other peoples weaknesses make you angry? is it because you dont understand? id give anything to be as strong as you are... please realize. its not like i want to be so stupid. i dont want to feel judged for it
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Because I care about you, stupid.
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(Anonymous) 2007-07-03 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)