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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2011-12-29 07:07 pm

[ SECRET POST #1822 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1822 ⌋


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(Anonymous) 2011-12-30 03:58 am (UTC)(link)
(I think) I am in a similar situation to anon. Hopefully op!anon is talking about a threesome relationship?

I haven't exactly fully become comfortable yet with my relationship, because sometimes it's really, really awkward. The two men have been together for awhile now, and the dating dynamic is weird because we do things as a "group". Even though we do things together that people in a relationship do normally (especially, exclusivity in dating/sex), I sometimes feel like the third wheel and not like an equal partner in our relationship =C and sometimes I feel like I'm just "short-term". Even though the sex/companionship is great especially the sex, I don't know if I actually love both these guys, because I'm not sure if they would actually love me back since, again, I feel "short-term" sometimes. Sometimes I think I should just break away from them and sometimes I think I'm just waiting for them to tell me it's over.

And since I'm technically in a relationship with two other guys, it's not like I can really discuss it with anyone, because it is kinda abnormal. I can already see my father reaching for the shovel if I ever had to explain it to my parents.

I'm not sure if OP's situation was similar, but damn it's nice to know that maybe there's another person out there in a similar situation. *waves hand at OP*

Also. What show is this?

[identity profile] rivulet027.livejournal.com 2011-12-30 04:19 am (UTC)(link)
The show is Doctor Who.

Also feel free to PM me. I'm in a relationship with a established couple as well. It has its ups and downs and I'm not sure how it'll all work out, but if you need someone to talk to...
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[personal profile] redseeker 2011-12-30 08:27 pm (UTC)(link)
I'd like to say that you can PM me as well. I'm quite shy, but it would be nice to talk to someone in a vaguely similar situation.