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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-01-06 07:18 pm

[ SECRET POST #1830 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1830 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Masterchef Australia]


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03.
[Grimm]


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04.
[Cracked.com]


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05.
[Stargate Universe]


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06.
[Skulduggery Pleasant]


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07.
[Young Justice]


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08.
[Chobits]


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09.
[Sailor Moon, Howard Stern]


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10.
[The Wonder Years/How I Met Your Mother]


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11.
[Community]


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12.
[Homestuck]


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13.
[Nutcracker, Motion Picture]


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14.
[David Archuleta]


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15.
[Love Actually]


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17.
[itskingsleybitch]


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18. [repeat]


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19.
[FFVII]


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20.
[Shake it Up/Bones]


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21.
[Sherlock Series 1]


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22.
[Pokemon]


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23. [repeat]


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24.
[Hatoful Boyfriend]


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25.
[Wonder Woman]


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26.
[James Deen]


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27.
[The Iron Giant]


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28.
[Code Geass]


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29.
[Code Geass]


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30.
[Code Geass]


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31.
[Code Geass]


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32. [SPOILERS for Dead Rising 2: Off The Record]



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33. [SPOILERS for Skyrim]



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34. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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35. [TRIGGER WARNING for mentions of rape]



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36. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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37. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #261.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

[identity profile] dorknessrising.livejournal.com 2012-01-07 06:41 pm (UTC)(link)
No, you can't be "forced" into beta-reading anything. But you can certainly be guilt-tripped and manipulated into it by "friends" who are too absorbed in their kinks to consider that not everyone will share those kinks or want to read about them. Which is a shitty move on the "friend's" part rather than the OP.

This whole secret feels really passive aggressive to me, like the OP didn't stand up for herself and blamed her friend for her own weakness.

Ah, blaming the victim is such a wonderful stand-by argument, ain't it?

And, no, being pressured to beta a fic is not the same as being raped.

Who here said it was?
Edited 2012-01-07 20:19 (UTC)

[identity profile] insanenoodlyguy.livejournal.com 2012-01-08 08:56 am (UTC)(link)
It's okay to blame a victim of something when something unrelated is their damn fault.

"Oh no, I have to read this thing I REALLY DON'T WANT TO READ."

I really doubt her friend had a gun to her head. I can appreciate the idea that OP was in a bad place at the time and may not have had a perspective on this, but OP sure as hell has one now, considering they are aware of the reasons they told them now. Petty reasons via their own admission.