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fandomsecrets2012-01-08 04:11 pm
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I'm a very sensitive person. This isn't a good thing, and I DO need to grow a thicker skin. I completely acknowledge that. However... that doesn't mean that other people should me mean to me. That doesn't take the blame off of them. Just because I should stand up for myself doesn't mean that someone else should purposely push me down. Also, my sensitivity is what leads me to be more sensitive to other people. Honestly, in that situation, I'd rather be sensitive than be the toughest fucker around if it meant being mean to people (not that a person can't be thick-skinned and kind- I know people who are).
"Having a thick skin can be really nice, but I think it's pretty terrible to expect perfectly good, innocent people to have to put up with crap while other people get away with treating people badly."
This, absolutely this.
lol @ me making this all about me: OP, if you want to get a sock, go for it, but know that what these people have done to you is NOT okay, and you are NOT the one who needs to change. I'd like to say "fuck those people, who cares what they think", but, although it's true, that's way easier said than done. What other people say does have an affect on you, even if they're bullying jerks, which it sounds like they are. I hope things get better for you. If getting a sock helps and you want to do it, do it, but do it to make YOUR life easier and not because you have anything to apologize for.