Personally for me at least who is all "messed up" (especially emotionally), when having to interact with someone "normal" is really hard work and makes me even more emotionally messed up than when I interact with someone who at least partially understand me.

And for romantic relationships this is even more important, it is easier for me to be in a relationship with someone who isn't completely normal and who understands that sometimes I just want to stay in bed and rewatch random TV shows and not do anything else, than someone who would just tell me to get out of bed and do something productive.

But then again that is just me, and I am not saying that everyone should act and think like I do.