[ SECRET POST #1839 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1839 ⌋


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Comments

[making-excuses.livejournal.com]

Personally for me at least who is all "messed up" (especially emotionally), when having to interact with someone "normal" is really hard work and makes me even more emotionally messed up than when I interact with someone who at least partially understand me.

And for romantic relationships this is even more important, it is easier for me to be in a relationship with someone who isn't completely normal and who understands that sometimes I just want to stay in bed and rewatch random TV shows and not do anything else, than someone who would just tell me to get out of bed and do something productive.

But then again that is just me, and I am not saying that everyone should act and think like I do.

[(Anonymous)]

I guess that's true... probably also depends on what is "normal" and/or standard.
I concider myself relatively normal and would gladly stay with my bf/gf in bed, chill and watch TV ;)
probably not as often as you do (???), but if two people start a relationship, there should be a level of acceptance and understanding of the each other before they enter it.

I like differences- I think both parties can profit from it, but I guess the partner has to be open for our weirdnesses/normality.

[making-excuses.livejournal.com]

Off course it depends on what you consider to be normal.
hehe:) I was just making a random example that didn't really matter, I am more a person who talks a lot and have problems showing and understanding emotions, I base most of my responses to things from what I see on the telly and such. And yes at times I do spend a day in front of my laptop watching telly, but I also have a need to reorganize all my books and that takes a day too and then I really don't like to be disturbed.

Off course there has to be an understanding and differences are okay, what I am trying (badly) to explain is that yes one can be different and happy, but when you have problems like I do, you can't just be with someone who is completely "normal" because even if they tried to understand me, I would just feel bad because of all the times they have had to adjust themselves to my moods and my emotional shortcomings.

Whoa that was TMI... Ah well, back to my Sherlock episode now...

[(Anonymous)]

IA. I think both she and Barney were using the term "messed up" a bit lightly. As in, they both have complicated emotional issues and bizarre lifestyle needs that people other than themselves wouldn't really understand or be able to accommodate. She's fine being like that around her more typical friends, but sharing her whole life with someone normal? I don't think she could ever do it, and I don't think many normal guys could do it. That's partly the reason she and Ted broke up - they loved each other to death, but they could never have given each other what they needed because they couldn't wrap their minds around the other's personalities and desires, no matter how understanding they tried to be. She and Barney, on the other hand, pretty much read each other's minds, and they'd each be able to roll with the other's messed-up-ness because they understand on a personal level what it's like.

[making-excuses.livejournal.com]

Off course they where!

And well I agree with you, and I just randomly use myself as an example constantly, (which I really need to stop doing, too many people know waaay to much about my personal life on the internet as it is) also okay I rambled again, and have nothing other to say than, I agree! (which I guess I already said)