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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-01-15 04:09 pm

[ SECRET POST #1839 ]

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[identity profile] childings.livejournal.com 2012-01-16 12:50 am (UTC)(link)
My first boyfriend called anime "robot porn" and generally looked down on it, though he knew I liked it. I developed kind of a complex about it and hid all my fansubs in my closet or whatever. I sort of understand

At the same time, even if someone you love doesn't share an interest of yours, they should be respectful about it if they really love you. So I think you should let him know.

[identity profile] dragonsofeden.livejournal.com 2012-01-16 04:52 am (UTC)(link)
At the same time, even if someone you love doesn't share an interest of yours, they should be respectful about it if they really love you.

Agreed. It wouldn't be considered acceptable to belittle your partner's interest in boating or rock climbing or scrapbooking -- why do we tolerate people ragging on nerdier hobbies? A good partner is one who is amused by your proclivities, not fearful of them.
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[identity profile] childings.livejournal.com 2012-01-16 05:05 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah, your partner doesn't have to enjoy or participate in your hobbies, just tolerate them