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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-01-15 04:09 pm

[ SECRET POST #1839 ]

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(Anonymous) 2012-01-16 07:08 am (UTC)(link)
I'm going to be the one to say it, but it's probably not the "it" everybody is expecting.

You're making a choice, and it's a valid choice, but it's not brave or amazing or special. If we want to end the potential life of a child we don't want, that's well within our right, but I don't think we need to be putting that action on a pedestal like some of y'all seem to be doing.

But best of luck to you, OP. I hope it all goes swimmingly.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-16 07:16 am (UTC)(link)
I don't think most people are really saying they're glad OP is getting an abortion because that's the best choice in general, they're just happy that she was able to reach the best choice for herself and that she's comfortable with it. The same thing happened a few weeks ago when someone posted a secret about being a teenage mother who was happy with her choice. A bunch of people told OP they were happy for her for doing what she felt was right even though others didn't agree with her choice. Same thing that's happening here. I'm pretty sure there was a secret a few months ago where someone mentioned giving up their child for adoption and the reactions were pretty much the same.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-16 07:58 am (UTC)(link)
"I don't think we need to be putting that action on a pedestal like some of y'all seem to be doing."

Yeah, my thoughts exactly. ._.

[identity profile] shukivengeance.livejournal.com 2012-01-16 08:38 am (UTC)(link)
Nobody's saying that abortion is fantastic, we're just being supportive of someone who has made an INCREDIBLY difficult decision.

[identity profile] skinst-bomb.livejournal.com 2012-01-16 11:05 am (UTC)(link)
How is wishing the OP luck at all putting them on a pedestal? :/

(Anonymous) 2012-01-16 06:09 pm (UTC)(link)
It's not. Reread.

[identity profile] skinst-bomb.livejournal.com 2012-01-17 02:08 am (UTC)(link)
Re-read what exactly? :/ Pretty much every user whose commented has simply wished the OP luck or told of their own stories of abortion. No pedestal or anything.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-17 06:52 am (UTC)(link)
I was going to clarify that I meant to reread my comment, bit maybe you should re-read the others, too, if you missed all the all the "You're so brave! That's so awesome! Good for you!" in many the above comments. Because that's a far cry from "Good luck. I hope it all goes well. Here's my story."