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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-01-23 07:46 pm

[ SECRET POST #1847 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1847 ⌋


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[identity profile] fscom.livejournal.com 2012-01-24 12:47 am (UTC)(link)
01. http://i.imgur.com/hTuBo.jpg

(Anonymous) 2012-01-24 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
I have to assume there's context for that, if you're one lie away from a break-up.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-24 12:55 am (UTC)(link)
...Your boyfriend dumping you over you not having an emotional reaction over a game (and bear in mind emotional reactions are dependent on mood and environment, yet cannot be controlled) seems really bizarre. If he's not willing to understand why you didn't cry, then he kind of sounds like an ass, where he expects you to live up to his expectations without any consideration for your views or opinions. :(

(Anonymous) 2012-01-24 12:59 am (UTC)(link)
either you're vastly overestimating his reaction or your boyfriend has weird priorities

or you're already on the edge of breaking up anyway and this will finally be the breaking point

[identity profile] smittenlotus.livejournal.com 2012-01-24 03:03 am (UTC)(link)
MTE.

[identity profile] kryptoncat.livejournal.com 2012-01-24 01:03 am (UTC)(link)
Do you really want to be with this guy? If he is really that nit-picky about stuff, is that something you would be able to put up with?

[identity profile] box-life.livejournal.com 2012-01-24 01:22 am (UTC)(link)
I know almost nothing about this game, but my gut reaction here is if you've read him right you should get a new boyfriend.

[identity profile] gabzillaz.livejournal.com 2012-01-24 01:31 am (UTC)(link)
If he dumps you over that he's not worth it

[identity profile] streetcake.livejournal.com 2012-01-24 01:36 am (UTC)(link)
Either you are being really paranoid or he is being really melodramatic. Look, I don't want to assume, but I had a similar issue with my ex. He was the one who thought I would be mad if he had a certain opinion about a fandom thing, and a lot of it had to do with the way I reacted to it in the first place. I was really vocal about my opinions and he felt that he wasn't allowed to have the opposite opinion. He revealed this later and was very bitter about it, but the truth is that I would've accepted that we didn't feel the same way if he had been honest. It was sad that he got so resentful without even talking to me about it.

In other words, if you just think that he'll be mad because he has a strong opinion about this movie, don't let it scare you! If it comes up, just tell him. If he does react badly, you deserve better anyway.

[identity profile] streetcake.livejournal.com 2012-01-24 02:29 am (UTC)(link)
woops, I meant game

[identity profile] fadeinthewash.livejournal.com 2012-01-24 06:06 am (UTC)(link)
Hmph. Your ex sounds like my ex (though mine wasn't in any fandoms). The whole quiet resentment thing. Argh.

[identity profile] cloud-riven.livejournal.com 2012-01-24 10:15 am (UTC)(link)
I have a friend who was just like this. Took him a good couple of years to realize that even though I've got grouchy opinions about a lot of things, I'm not actually hateful at all. I actually have a stupid strong appreciation for upfront honesty regarding anything, especially disagreements, because it lets me know where people stand and know when they're being genuine. At least he got to breathe his sigh of relief that we weren't about to become vitriolic over something stupid though. Most dull, one-sidedly emotional, derpy conversation ever.

[identity profile] dragon-infusion.livejournal.com 2012-01-24 01:59 am (UTC)(link)
I knew a guy like that. He was a creepy overbearing jerk.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-24 02:25 am (UTC)(link)
DTMFA

[identity profile] cloud-riven.livejournal.com 2012-01-24 10:06 am (UTC)(link)
Dump the motherfucking asshole?

I actually read it as DTMAF first, and thought you meant, "do the man a favour."

[identity profile] drayton.livejournal.com 2012-01-24 09:06 pm (UTC)(link)
dump the motherfucker already :)
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[identity profile] visp.livejournal.com 2012-01-24 03:42 am (UTC)(link)
I'm not you, but to me, anyone who demanded I cry over anything, much less something as trivial as a fictional situation, would be cut out of my life so fast they wouldn't know what hit them. Trying to control when someone else cries is just... creepy and controlling and manipulative with hints of insecurity, sexism, emotional vampirism and all sorts of other nasty things.

[identity profile] mskye.livejournal.com 2012-01-24 04:45 am (UTC)(link)
Yeah... something's not right here.

[identity profile] occreater.livejournal.com 2012-01-24 05:19 am (UTC)(link)
I'm just gonna sneak in here, all off-topic and such, and ask where I can find that fanart picture because it is just gorgeous.

[identity profile] canadian-kazz.livejournal.com 2012-01-24 10:33 am (UTC)(link)
He really doesn't sound worth it.