[ SECRET POST #1849 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1849 ⌋


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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

...You could try saying 'Hey, can we talk? I like to get to know my rp partners.' It's what I do, and most of the people I've rped with don't mind at all. [And this is after 12 years of rping.] Your partner might be one of the ones who isn't for it - but the worst they can do is say 'no, not really interested.'

[redseeker]

the worst they can do is say 'no, not really interested.'

They may find it hard to decline out of fear of being rude, of course.

[(Anonymous)]

Ok, but nobody is psychic, we can't just stop asking people basic questions because they might want to turn you down but not actually do it because they would feel rude.

I'm all for being considerate of people's feelings, but there's a freaking limit to how considerate you can be without actually being a mind-reader.

[redseeker]

I wasn't saying not to do it. Just that it might be something to consider - if the person seems uninterested, then they may very well be uninterested. I think I've been on both sides of this situation, with different RP partners, over the years.

[(Anonymous)]

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So tell them it's okay to say no. As the other anon said - there's only so courteous you can be without having some form of ESP...and honestly? Being so courteous that your not even pursuing a possible friendship is a bit over the top.