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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-01-25 05:56 pm

[ SECRET POST #1849 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1849 ⌋


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(Anonymous) 2012-01-26 12:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Is it really? I don't quite understand what you mean by "roll up on", but to get over the fear she'll have to start interacting with dogs normally. And I'm not trying to be cruel; I was bitten in the face (by a Great Dane!) as a child of about twelve, and had to consciously work with myself afterwards not to give in to fear. As a result, I don't have a fear of dogs today.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-26 01:28 pm (UTC)(link)
Yes, but you consciously worked with yourself. There's a difference between someone willingly working on a fear/phobia/whatever, and people knowing about a problem and purposely ignoring and provoking. You working with dogs = cool. Friends knowing about a fear of dogs and purposely ignoring that and shoving dogs into your live = not cool.

(Anonymous) 2012-01-26 01:43 pm (UTC)(link)
Harsh, like life.
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[identity profile] darkmanifest.livejournal.com 2012-01-26 07:23 pm (UTC)(link)
"Roll up on", as in, shove a dog in her face without warning. I'm happy you were able to overcome your fear - I'm assuming no one forced you to do it? That it was an effort you made in your own time, using your own personal methods, and people who cared about you were considerate of what you'd been through until then? I'd encourage any attempts my friend might make to face her fear should she so choose, but it wouldn't be appropriate for me to take it upon myself to ignore her discomfort with certain situations despite knowing how she feels.