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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-02-09 07:23 pm

[ SECRET POST #1864 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1864 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Howl's Moving Castle]


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03.
[Doctor Who]


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04.
[Sailor Moon]


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05.
[Orphan]


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06. [repeat]


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07.
[Muppet Treasure Island]


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08.
[The Vampire Chronicles]


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[American baseball]


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[Wall-E]


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[Death Note, BBC Sherlock]


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[Virgin Love]


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[Anne McCaffrey's Dinosaur Planet I & II]


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[The Vampire Diaries]


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15.
[Die Ärzte]


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[King of the Hill, Ben 10]


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[Madonna]


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18.
[How I Met Your Mother]


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19.
[The Hunger Games]


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[Phi Brain: Kami No Puzzle]


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21.
[Cover Up!, The Crow]


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[Flashdance]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 031 secrets from Secret Submission Post #266.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2012-02-10 05:42 am (UTC)(link)
Hm, wanting to be able to be a good friend makes the OP a lousy human being? I wonder -- how exactly do you comfort all these people and be aware of when they're in trouble when you don't have a strong personal connection to them? You have "dozens" of friends? You have people just falling all over you telling you about their problems and being comfortable enough with you to let you comfort them? You must know a lot of people. You must make a lot of connections. You must be really confident and outgoing. You must have a big social circle. You must have a lot of friends. You must have a great reputation. You must be really LUCKY.

Seems to me, the OP doesn't have the kind of luck you have, and it's pretty shitty to jump to the conclusion that their social situation must be exactly the same as yours, except that they don't give a fuck about anyone.

(Anonymous) 2012-02-10 11:22 am (UTC)(link)
I didn't say that wanting to be a good friend makes the OP a lousy person. It was the whole 'I don't give a crap about the current friends I do have' that made them sound like an unpleasant person to know.

Of course I don't expect them to have the same social situation as myself. There's not enough info in the secret to know the exact situation of the OP so I, like everyone else who read the secret, interpreted it to the best of my abilities. And to me, it sounded like the OP had friends and he realized he wasn't a very good friend to them. If he had said that they realized they don't have any friends but he wanted to make some so that he could be a great friend like Ted, I would have cheered him on. But the way I read the secret is that he has friends that he doesn't care about, for whatever reason.