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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-02-09 07:23 pm

[ SECRET POST #1864 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1864 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Howl's Moving Castle]


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03.
[Doctor Who]


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04.
[Sailor Moon]


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05.
[Orphan]


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06. [repeat]


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07.
[Muppet Treasure Island]


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08.
[The Vampire Chronicles]


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09.
[American baseball]


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10.
[Wall-E]


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11.
[Death Note, BBC Sherlock]


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12.
[Virgin Love]


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13.
[Anne McCaffrey's Dinosaur Planet I & II]


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14.
[The Vampire Diaries]


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15.
[Die Ärzte]


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16.
[King of the Hill, Ben 10]


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17.
[Madonna]


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18.
[How I Met Your Mother]


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19.
[The Hunger Games]


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20.
[Phi Brain: Kami No Puzzle]


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21.
[Cover Up!, The Crow]


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22.
[Flashdance]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 031 secrets from Secret Submission Post #266.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2012-02-10 03:23 pm (UTC)(link)
Don't worry, this wasn't a fandom friend, it was an old university friend, so it's unlikely I'm who you're thinking of. But it sounds like you're already taking major steps - you're aware of the balance of friendship, that there's give and take and if you're always putting your issues on somebody else without ever giving them a chance to offload their own problems then all you'll do is weigh them down and make them miserable. Being aware of that is fantastic, because a lot of people simply AREN'T. Even when it's pointed out to them that they're doing exactly, they'd rather push the blame elsewhere or accuse people of lying or victimising them than accept the truth. as long you're aware of that balance, if you make yourself as available to your friends as they make themselves available to you when it comes to sharing problems, I'm sure you're not bothering anyone