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fandomsecrets2012-02-11 03:19 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2012-02-11 03:19 pm
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(Anonymous) 2012-02-11 11:47 pm (UTC)(link)You're right - it's shitty when someone up and leaves and gives you no word. You're worried and concerned because you have a connection with this person - which you likely thought was mutual - and them leaving without telling you is basically them saying you don't mean anything to them. Chances are? That's not the case, but it feels like it and I get that hurts. I really, honestly, truly do.
But it's not always so easy. Some people are inconsiderate jerks. Some people are caught up in issues in which they don't have the opportunity to communicate anything. And some people think a clean break is what's best - and are just as hurt as you. What it comes down to is that they get to choose how they behave and if you don't agree with it it's really just too bad.
Here's the good news: You get to choose how you feel about it. Focus on the good. Remember them at their best and hope they're well in whatever they're doing now. Look forward to the new people you'll meet. Let it go. You'll feel a whole lot better, I promise.