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fandomsecrets2012-02-17 05:31 pm
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[ SECRET POST #1872 ]
⌈ Secret Post #1872 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[Hobo with a Shotgun]
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[That Mitchell and Webb Look]
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[The Secret Circle]
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[How I Met Your Mother]
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[Les Miserables]
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[Code Geass]
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[Star Trek]
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[Pound Puppies]
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[NCIS]
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[Mass Effect 3]
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[Glee]
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[Brave New World]
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[Star Trek DS9]
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[Brazil]
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[Rob Liefeld/Ioana Spangenberg]
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[Suzumiya Haruhi]
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[A:tLA]
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[Video Games Awesome!, Skyward Sword Long Haul]
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[Toy Story]
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[Being Human]
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[G.I. Joe: The Rise of Cobra]
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[My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic]
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[Hetalia]
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26. [SPOILERS for Mass Effect 3]
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27. [TRIGGER WARNING for sexual abuse]
[Revolutionary Girl Utena]
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28. [TRIGGER WARNING for suicide]
[SPOILERS for The Hunger Games]
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29. [TRIGGER WARNING for non-con and sex between minors]
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[Sherlock]
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[linked for (censored) porny stuff]
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Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #267.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 2 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - hit/ship/spiration ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
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(Anonymous) 2012-02-17 11:14 pm (UTC)(link)My housemate has been really sad this past two weeks. She's studying a PhD in Psychology and hates her topic. I think she's pretty stressed and she seems to be feeling left out a lot lately. I don't think she has many friends and uni classes aren't up yet so it's pretty much me and my housemates who she sees. I think it's mostly little things that upset her - like not knowing one housie was going to be away on the day she made some cake (none of us knew, including fiance) or a housie and me building a shelf (his shelf, but I own all the tools in the house). I'm trying to involve her, but now I'm stressed she'll be all PA about it.
Thing is she's been really passive aggressive about it lately and it's upsetting my other two housemates (who are engaged and getting married next month, so they're pretty busy right now). I'm trying to balance the three of them, but I'm getting pretty tired of it - especially since I don't know if there's an underlying problem (she says she doesn't want to talk about it, so I just do my best to make her laugh).
So now I'm all stressed out and fretting, but I work full time and night shift. So I am tired when I get home
Also I need to somehow tell her to do the dishes more often because it's not really fair that she's home pretty much every day but only does the dishes about once a week. Other housemate who does nightshift probably does it the most and the three of us are a bit annoyed. I don't know how to ask her to do them more often without risking upsetting her.
I've been spending a lot of time around her to try and cheer her up, and I'm really concerned. But I'm also tired and it's beginning to feel like an uneven Sherlock/Watson friendship here.
thanks
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(Anonymous) 2012-02-18 12:16 am (UTC)(link)Also try to keep in mind that it is not your job to please everyone, and your housemate is being kind of childish and ridiculous. I mean, getting upset because someone was gone when she made cake? That's really weird.
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(Anonymous) 2012-02-18 02:42 pm (UTC)(link)But if she is being childish and rude, as well as refusing to do her part in chores, then you should get the entire house together to discuss each person's responsibility in the house. It isn't fair if she is making the house miserable for everybody else.
And yeah, like the above anon said, the cake thing is weird. Fair enough if she is disappointed that someone might not be there to eat the cake she made. But getting mad about it? That's just incredibly selfish and rude. Sounds like there might be some sort of deeper issue there though.