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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-02-17 05:31 pm

[ SECRET POST #1872 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1872 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Hobo with a Shotgun]


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03.
[That Mitchell and Webb Look]


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04.
[The Secret Circle]


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[How I Met Your Mother]


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[Les Miserables]


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[Code Geass]


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[Star Trek]


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[Pound Puppies]


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[NCIS]


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[Mass Effect 3]


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[Glee]


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[Brave New World]


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[Star Trek DS9]


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[Brazil]


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[Rob Liefeld/Ioana Spangenberg]


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[Suzumiya Haruhi]


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[A:tLA]


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19.
[Video Games Awesome!, Skyward Sword Long Haul]


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[Toy Story]


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21.
[Being Human]


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22.
[G.I. Joe: The Rise of Cobra]


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23.
[My Little Pony: Friendship is Magic]


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24.
[How I Met Your Mother]


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[Hetalia]


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26. [SPOILERS for Mass Effect 3]



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27. [TRIGGER WARNING for sexual abuse]

[Revolutionary Girl Utena]


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28. [TRIGGER WARNING for suicide]
[SPOILERS for The Hunger Games]



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29. [TRIGGER WARNING for non-con and sex between minors]



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30. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]

[Sherlock]


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31. [TRIGGER WARNING for shotacon]
http://i.imgur.com/JJapK.png
[linked for (censored) porny stuff]









Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #267.
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(Anonymous) 2012-02-18 04:05 am (UTC)(link)
Have you ever been denied employment due to your asexuality?
Denied housing?
Denied education, both public and private?
Fired from your job?
Denied medical coverage?
Arrested on trumped-up charges for being an asexual in the wrong neighborhood?
Anything similar?

If not, then you need to stop being fucking dense.

(Anonymous) 2012-02-18 04:07 am (UTC)(link)
Yes.

(Anonymous) 2012-02-18 04:10 am (UTC)(link)
Ok, what happened? This oughtta be good.

*fetches popcorn*

(Anonymous) 2012-02-18 04:49 am (UTC)(link)
*crickets chirp*

lol, thought so.

(Anonymous) 2012-02-18 04:54 am (UTC)(link)
during anon's last performance review, their boss asked "last question, how much sex do you have?"

anon said "honestly i am not interested in sex."

boss said "that's IT, YOU'RE FIRED. gather your things, i can't even look at you right now. i will make sure you never work in this town again, you disgusting cake-lovin' who-watchin' ace!!"

it was all quite tragic

(Anonymous) 2012-02-18 06:12 am (UTC)(link)
+11111111111111111111111

(Anonymous) 2012-02-18 03:07 pm (UTC)(link)
I know a girl that was pretty much fired due to her asexuality once, actually.

During breaks, everyone would gather up and talk about their sex lives and shit, and she didn't have a problem with it at all, but they had a problem with how she never "contributed" her experiences to their discussions and when she told them she was asexual, they stopped inviting her, and she was eventually fired because "she made the others uncomfortable". And this girl is one of the nicest people I've ever met.

(Anonymous) 2012-02-18 03:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Another asexual, here.

Calling bullshit. Ten bucks says that wasn't the sole reason she was fired, if she was fired for that reason at all.

(Anonymous) 2012-02-18 07:02 pm (UTC)(link)
lol whut

(Anonymous) 2012-02-18 07:09 pm (UTC)(link)
People lie on the internet, and this is exactly the kind of "OMG ME TOO" appropriating bullshit that Internet Asexuals dish out whenever someone calls them out on their persecution complex.

You aren't persecuted for not fucking. It's not that difficult.

(Anonymous) 2012-02-18 07:20 pm (UTC)(link)
Yikes

(Anonymous) 2012-02-18 07:22 pm (UTC)(link)
Finding out you aren't special and oppressed hurts, I know. You'll get over it eventually.

(Anonymous) 2012-02-18 07:27 pm (UTC)(link)
(prev anon) I'm not asexual, I just think your assumptions are pretty shitty.

(Anonymous) 2012-02-18 07:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Lying to cover your butthurt rarely works, buddy.

(Anonymous) 2012-02-18 08:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Another Ace that had the exact same issue, actually, except I was raped rather than fired and quit on my own. Newsflash - society is weirded about by asexuality, and yeah, other people WILL hold it against Aces. If it makes people uncomfortable enough, things like being fired or ostracized, amongst other negative consequences for Aces, can and often do happen. I don't think it's that common, because most people who are unwilling to accept asexuality tend to assume someone is celibate or just "can't get laid" or whatever. But it offends me greatly when people assume discrimination doesn't happen to Aces based on their orientation. Things like rape are very real and very painful, just as they are for everyone else (regardless of sexuality, or lack thereof). It's underreported for all demographics, so it's no wonder a lot of people haven't heard of it being a thing that happens to people because they identify as Ace, but it happened to me. If rape can happen, then I 100% believe the other anon was being sincere, because anything can happen - commonplace or not.

(Anonymous) 2012-02-18 08:51 pm (UTC)(link)
you were raped at work because you said you are not interested in sex?

ofc rape happens, but that happens to everyone and it's not an example of institutionalised discrimination against asexual people.

(Anonymous) 2012-02-19 04:28 am (UTC)(link)
We're not talking about institutionalized rape, we're talking about rape being a thing that happens to people because of their orientation. And yes, it happened to me - and happens to others - because we're asexual.

(Anonymous) 2012-02-18 07:10 pm (UTC)(link)
And she sued the fuck out of the company, I guess. Unless you are making this up.

(Anonymous) 2012-02-18 07:29 pm (UTC)(link)
I have my money on the latter. Or if it's not made up, she was more likely doing something else to make everyone uncomfortable enough to fire her. Like being incompetent, not following policy, not communicating, shirking attendance, etc.