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fandomsecrets2012-02-24 06:22 pm
case) wrote in fandomsecrets2012-02-24 06:22 pm
[ SECRET POST #1879 ]
⌈ Secret Post #1879 ⌋
Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.
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[The Dain Curse by Dashiell Hammett]
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[Matilda]
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[Person of Interest]
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[Boston Public]
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[Rideback]
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[The Office (UK)/Harry Potter]
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[Inspector Lynley Mysteries]
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[Prince of Cats]
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10. [personal attack]
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[Misfits]
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[Smash]
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[Hetalia]
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[Shadow of the Colossus]
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[Dragon Age]
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[Zack Snyder]
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[Kill Bill]
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[askandroidwheatley/Wheatley (Portal 2)]
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19. [repeat]
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[TGWTG, Todd in the Shadows]
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21.
[Sailor Moon]
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[Hyvät ja huonot uutiset]
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[MLP: FiM]
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[Once Upon a Time]
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25.
[Katekyo Hitman Reborn!]
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[How I Met Your Mother]
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27.
[Castle]
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28.
[Amanda Palmer]
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[Katawa Shoujo]
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[Homestuck]
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31.
[Evangelion]
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[ ----- SPOILERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
32. [SPOILERS for Salt and TGWTDT]
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33. [SPOILERS for Katawa Shoujo]
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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]
34. [TRIGGER WARNING for incest]
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35. [TRIGGER WARNING for incest]
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36. [TRIGGER WARNING for child abuse]
[DC comics/DCAU]
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Notes:
Secrets Left to Post: 00 pages, 000 secrets from Secret Submission Post #268.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.
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(Anonymous) 2012-02-25 03:19 am (UTC)(link)no subject
i'm not gay, bi or trans but lgbt rights are extremely important to me, do you think i shouldn't be allowed to care?
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(Anonymous) 2012-02-25 06:36 am (UTC)(link)Idk. Like, I get the whole 'if this doesn't affect you personally, shut up for a second' thing, because too many times I've seen discusses strictly about and FOR the party affected being hijacked by (most commonly) white people who have never even gone through the event in question
I understand the desire for some people to step the fuck back and let the oppressed party talk, instead of talking over them since they get enough of that in daily life.
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(Anonymous) 2012-02-25 04:31 pm (UTC)(link)You know what they say about "when you assume." Well, sorta. The things I have are usually considered disabilities, but aren't in the same group of disabilities that's being discussed here. (I'm mentally ill.) I've had the experience of "allies" that came in from SJ deciding what needs to be offensive to me (usually certain words, etc) while completely ignoring the actually terrible things that have happened to me and other people because we were deemed "crazy people". On the scale of awful, the things that these people decide to talk about are pretty low. And I've seen a bunch of times where people who didn't have mental illnesses snapped at people who did just because the wrong words were used. "Don't listen to crazy people, they can't make decisions for themselves" is a thing so it gets me really angry.
I've heard about this happening with the Derpy issue. People getting together to talk about it, and fans with disabilities getting talked over by not-disabled SJWs.... about what things count as ableism and how people should react to it. I don't know all the details- whether the only people with disabilities present disagreed about Derpy, or whether there was a range of opinions but the not-disabled SJWs brought it on themselves to police what's ok for disabled people to say. And I think "don't listen to disabled people, they can't make decisions for themselves" seems to be a thing no matter what kind of disability people are talking about.
So while there IS overlap, I'm aware there's a difference. But I do have the experience of being told by people who do not share my problems that I need to react to my problems in a certain way, and it gets me angry when that happens to others because it's a really demeaning thing. I don't want to tell people who have different problems than me how to react to them- I just am pissed as fuck at anyone being talked over and spoken for.