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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-03-06 06:53 pm

[ SECRET POST #1890 ]

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[identity profile] marshwiggledyke.livejournal.com 2012-03-07 12:37 am (UTC)(link)
It does mean that I can at the very least try not to be an asshole to the people around me, and stay aware that those people are not going to revolve around what I personally find interesting and/or relevant to me. Safe spaces =/= support group.

(Anonymous) 2012-03-07 12:41 am (UTC)(link)
Your comments make it sound as though you don't feel like you deserve the same respect in fandom.

[identity profile] marshwiggledyke.livejournal.com 2012-03-07 03:54 am (UTC)(link)
I try to treat people the way I would like to be treated, anon. How do you define 'respect'?

(Anonymous) 2012-03-07 02:15 pm (UTC)(link)
You treat people the way you would like to be treated, but if people don't treat you the same way, you're okay with that? I would not be.

[identity profile] marshwiggledyke.livejournal.com 2012-03-07 03:49 pm (UTC)(link)
If people don't treat me the way I would like to be treated when I'm being gracious to them and extending every possible respect, I either leave, or ignore them (usually possible on the internet). If I can't do either, well, I like to think it's a measure of integrity to not let someone else's behavior compromise my own. And besides, I'd rather know that I did nothing in the wrong in as many circumstances as I can manage than know I did something that I could have helped.

You never answered how you personally would define respect, anon? I was curious to hear your response.