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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-03-12 07:13 pm

[ SECRET POST #1896 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1896 ⌋


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(Anonymous) 2012-03-13 03:19 am (UTC)(link)
That it's a contrived solution, mainly. My personal experience with poly relationships didn't have any of that, because we all went into it with our eyes open. Most people aren't okay with the equal but loving dynamic between more than two people that is necessary for those relationships to work out, and even when they are, it's really unusual for all three people to be okay with it. Jealousy might turn to lust or something, but it doesn't usually reach the point of love or affection, because that damn competitive nature between at least two of the three is still there.

(When I've seen problems, it is usually between the two men/women in love with the one person. It's difficult to resolve, and nobody bothers to try in fiction.)

Yes, I do have a lot of feelings about this. :/