[ SECRET POST #1928 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1928 ⌋

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Comments

[valenciapilgrim.livejournal.com]

I just wanted to say that I agree with most, if not all of what you are saying here. I have never understood how Dean is a misogynist for having casual sex (is his sex life for most of the show indicative of a healthy psyche? NO, but he is not supposed to be a paragon of mental health, he is presented as a flawed person). I also think about how he ended up with Lisa for a long time, when she was presented as having a very similar sexual background to his (wild). Did he ever once look down on her for it? No.

I get that Dean, Lisa, me, you and everyone operate in a wold that affords many, many privileges to men when it comes to sexual freedom, and that makes certain words or actions that either gender would perform have different weights and consequences. What I don't agree with this that living in a world that is rife with misogyny and having casual sex automatically makes a male a misogynist. I simply disagree. And I happen to be a straight female who once got into an argument with her ENTIRE 8th grade science class, including the disgusting pig of a (male) teacher, where everyone but me straight-up agreed that sexism and discrimination against females does not exist in the world today (or in the world at that point in time when I was in 8th grade). Why yes, I did grow up in a backward small town, thanks for asking.

Oh by the way, I also have internal misogyny for thinking it would be hot if Dean got it on with Castiel. Which to me is such a lovely fucking argument. Stupid girl, you can't decide for yourself what is sexy to you! If you want to see two hot guys make out, you hate yourself! Guys who want to watch lesbians don't, tho.

If someone wants to believe that I am a complete moron for believing this, well, OK. You would probably not be the first to hold such an opinion of me. But that's just like, your opinion, man.

[tabaqui]

What gets the most, i think, in this whole ridiculous thread, is this 'Dean objectifies women! Misogynist!!' thing, when pretty much EVERY SINGLE FAN GIRL EVER objectifies not only the *characters*, but the actual, live actors as well. And in ways that they might find pretty damn horrifying (kink meme, anyone?).

I don't think that Dean's an evil, horrible person for calling a demon in a woman's body a 'bitch' - he's facing the creatures that killed his family and screwed him over, repeatedly - that want to end the world as we know it. I doubt he's thinking about how he might hurt the possessed woman's feelings and pretty much only thinking about the creature that's trying to kill him.

I think Bela was the only actual woman who he ever called names, and she did her best to screw them both over - and succeeded several times! She *shot* Sam - probably a little worse than calling someone a name. I just...don't see 'hate woman and think they're inferior' behavior coming from Sam and Dean. Maybe Soulless Sam, but - no soul, for heaven's sake.

I've seen this argument since season one, i think, and it's still holds no water with me. And yes - casual sex with willing partners /= 'i think you are all disgusting sluts.' Nobody seems to think his partners are bad people for hooking up with *him* - he's just some evil, manipulative man who's *taking advantage of them*. Way to turn those women from consenting, independent adults into addled children who need a guiding hand.