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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-05-01 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #1946 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1946 ⌋

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Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 092 secrets from Secret Submission Post #278.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - hit/ship/spiration ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-02 03:07 am (UTC)(link)
Gotta agree. You reflect yourself in the way that you dress, if you dress like a tramp you're telling everyone you're a tramp. If I walked around town with my ta-tas all hanging out and my ass cheeks coming out the bottom of my shorts, I'd expect to get hit on my every sleaze ball in town, possibly raped, while if I dress like a normal ass person I'd expect to get treated with respect. It may not be fair, but it's truths.
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[identity profile] childings.livejournal.com 2012-05-02 04:30 am (UTC)(link)
possibly raped

Hope you are trolling because dear lord

(Anonymous) 2012-05-02 08:20 am (UTC)(link)
OP

Yeah, there is a difference between a skimpy outfit and a Playboy Bunny costume, if you look at it that way (which I most assuredly don't). The bunny costume isn't actually that skimpy. Only my arms and the top of my cleavage will be showing. You see worse on the street every day.

But to be honest, I think you're probably a troll. If not, honestly? I hope somebody fucking rapes you so you get a bit of fucking perspective. You think I should expect to be raped because of what I'm wearing? Fuck. You. You're exactly what's so wrong with the world that I worry about dressing up in a fancy costume to go to a con and pay homage to my favourite studio. You're disgusting.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-02 11:32 am (UTC)(link)
I hope somebody fucking rapes you

You sound like a real winner.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-02 11:44 am (UTC)(link)
OP

Was just hitting it right back at them. Telling me I deserve to be raped if I go in cosplay to a con is fucking disgusting. Why isn't it as bad if I'm told I should be raped?

(Anonymous) 2012-05-02 11:49 am (UTC)(link)
I don't see anywhere that anyone told you that you should get raped. I see a comment above the one you replied to, in which that anon says they felt if THEY went about dressed provocatively, they would feel they might get raped. I'm assuming that's who you were directing your comment at when you said "I hope somebody fucking rapes you", because [livejournal.com profile] childings really didn't say anything to provoke your response to them.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-02 11:19 pm (UTC)(link)
I've been agreeing with your stance throughout this whole thread on this secret but telling someone they should be raped for ANY reason is not ok, OP. You're being hypocritical. Just because they said it first doesn't make it ok for you to say it. It makes you both assholes in this situation.

[identity profile] inkedfeathers.livejournal.com 2012-05-02 08:19 pm (UTC)(link)
You might've had a point (the way we dress CAN have an affect on the way people treat us, this is undeniable, whether you believe it's right or wrong), but then you lost it by the end.

Nope, nope. You can cover up every inch of your body and still get raped.

If you start victim-blaming, there's just no winning: "but you wore a short skirt, right? Oh, you were cover from head to toe? You wore a niqab when you got raped? Well, clearly, it's because you were out at night or because you flaunted your religion in your way of dressing and that's why you got raped."

Dressing in a modest manner might get you more respect, but it won't prevent rape. Dressing in an "indecent" manner might get you more negative attention, but it doesn't make it all your fault if you get raped. Personal responsibility applies to the rapist as well.

In short, your victim-blaming is gross.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-02 11:19 pm (UTC)(link)
all of this.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-02 11:21 pm (UTC)(link)
I'd expect to get hit on my every sleaze ball in town, possibly raped

Please tell me you are not saying this would be your FAULT. How disgusting.