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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-05-01 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #1946 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1946 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-05-02 03:14 am (UTC)(link)
DA

While I think she doesn't deserve to made uncomfortable by virtue of people being skeevs and leering or being nasty or something, it really depends on what makes her uncomfortable.

If she doesn't like getting hit on period, I don't know what to say. Men and women both hit on clothed people. But since they can see more of your body, you look more attractive, and therefore they are more likely to hit on you. It's not that you're a target, you just look more attractive and are going to experience more come-ons from a wider range of people for it.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-02 08:22 am (UTC)(link)
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I'd prefer not to get hit on overtly, as my girlfriend's going to be there and I don't want her to feel uncomfortable, but I don't mind at all. That's just friendly flattery, and strangers making friends at a con aren't to know I'm not single. I'm just talking about grossly inappropriate, like touching or rape insinuation or not stopping hitting on me if I tell them I'm flattered but attached. That's what I mean.