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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-05-01 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #1946 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1946 ⌋

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(Anonymous) 2012-05-02 01:21 pm (UTC)(link)
It might be a cultural thing (I know English people are more reserved) because while uncomfortable and a bit awkward, it doesn't sound like harrasement to me.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-02 03:10 pm (UTC)(link)
Or you're ignorant of the reasonable boundaries of some individuals. "he kept coming up to us while we were trying to eat" is what the OP said, and this implies that he would not take a hint to leave them alone.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-02 03:16 pm (UTC)(link)
OP should not have been hinting at the guy to leave. If they wanted to be left alone, they should have told him flat-out to go away. If they didn't, it is not the guy's fault for not getting a clue.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-02 03:44 pm (UTC)(link)
That is actually part of the English reserved nature. We're all actually quite passive aggressive so when it comes to a situation like that we have a few stages:

1. Politely hint at them leaving
2. Make the conversation uncomfortable to try and get the invading party to leave
3. Become irate
4. Demand that they leave whilst shouting.

This is pretty much a standard we have here. England is stupid sometimes...

(Anonymous) 2012-05-02 04:14 pm (UTC)(link)
ayrt

Everyone is ignorant of other people's boundaries unless they are explained to them. All I was saying is that the guy sounds annoying, but not someone who was harrassing OP and their friends.