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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-05-01 06:40 pm

[ SECRET POST #1946 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1946 ⌋

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 04 pages, 092 secrets from Secret Submission Post #278.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - hit/ship/spiration ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-02 04:31 pm (UTC)(link)
Wait wait wait, some skeezy guy hits on you before the con. THIS sparks the whole "if someone says something inappropriate at a con in a sketchy costume, I'mma punch 'em"?? The con has no relevance, except you were going to it the next day...

Seriously, you might as well change it to "Next time someone (IN REAL LIFE) harasses me, I'mma punch 'em!"

There's several of you in this anecdote, why didn't at least ONE of you stop his advances then?

(Anonymous) 2012-05-02 04:44 pm (UTC)(link)
Apparently it's on everyone else in the world to make OP feel comfortable, so she doesn't have to take any responsibility for herself. You know, like how she can dress up provocatively in public and no one is allowed to comment on it?

(Anonymous) 2012-05-02 07:39 pm (UTC)(link)
da

commenting =/= harassing

it is not ok to make someone feel uncomfortable just because she chose to dress a certain way.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-02 07:52 pm (UTC)(link)
If a man walking up to a table and talking while OP doesn't bother to tell him to go away is enough to make her uncomfortable, people commenting on a sexy outfit is going to make her just as uncomfortable. Because she doesn't know how to deal with attention ("Stop, you're making me uncomfortable, please go away.") does not give her the right to physically assault people as her secret indicates she plans to.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-02 10:42 pm (UTC)(link)
ayrt

Sounded to me like he was persistent despite getting a cold reception and got WAY into one person's personal space, which is definitely NOT ok. Especially since he was drunk. I'd be extremely uncomfortable too. It's also not far-fetched at all to expect that people will make rude comments, leer, etc. while she's wearing that outfit because sadly some people are pigs.

I would say punching someone in the mouth is going a bit far, but to be fair I interpreted the secret a little less literally than that. But you'd have to ask the OP. I don't blame her, though, for saying she would get angry and react if someone crossed the line with her.