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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-05-02 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #1947 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1947 ⌋

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 068 secrets from Secret Submission Post #278.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-03 04:15 am (UTC)(link)
I don't know all the anon acronyms but I posted the comment you are replying to.

I do write fanfic that contains sex and adult situations. I naturally did not tell my child about fanfic porn in general nor mine in particular. Because she is nine.

I am an English professor and my house is full of books that contain sexual and adult situations. My child is reading on a 12th grade level. Because that's where the reading tests given in elementary schools stop. She could read all the words in The Prince of Tides or Stranger in a Strange Land or hell even my perennial favorite Sweet Savage Love, but I haven't made those books aren't available to her yet because while she could read and understand them to a certain extent, I don't think she's emotionally ready for their content.

When she's older, I fully expect her to read any of the books we have in our house, and I have no intentions of censoring her readership. I don't intend to censor her internet reading either.

A preponderance of the fanfic I write has no sexual or mature content at all, and even the vast majority of those that do are not what I would categorize as PWP. If she chooses to become a part of fandom, I don't think I could logistically show her the gen and hide the stuff with sex in it. But IDK, that's years ahead of where we are now.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-03 09:28 am (UTC)(link)
Parenting: you are doing it right.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-03 08:52 pm (UTC)(link)
Thankee muchly. I'd like to think we're not screwing up too badly. ;)

(Anonymous) 2012-05-04 06:36 pm (UTC)(link)
You sound like an awesome parent and I applaud your efforts. My mom did much the same with me and I think I've turned out fairly well (and people seem to agree with that so until I hear something to the contrary...yeah). And should I ever have rugrats, I'll do the same with them.

Keep up the great work, anon.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-04 10:48 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks! *beams*

Fandom is such an important part of my life and such a rich and interesting place, I can't imagine trying to keep it a secret from my kid. (Within age appropriate limits), I'm stoked for her to start participating in fandom. :)

(Anonymous) 2012-05-04 07:15 pm (UTC)(link)
Odd. I think LJ ate my comment.

Long story short, I just wanted to say you sound like an awesome parent. Keep up the good work!

(Anonymous) 2012-05-04 10:45 pm (UTC)(link)
Aww, thanks. I hope so. :)