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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-05-02 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #1947 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1947 ⌋

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[identity profile] fuchsiascreams.livejournal.com 2012-05-03 05:56 am (UTC)(link)
But there are so many clothes that are designed for people specifically with small breasts, and a lot of clothes that you just can't wear with a bra on (which large-breasted women HAVE to do). Which isn't to say, of course, that hating your body is better at ANY size: just that most clothing is specifically designed for smaller-breasted women.

It's also a lot easier to get called a slut for wearing certain styles of clothing if you have large breasts. I wear to school one day with my best friend wearing the exact same tanktop as her, and they forced me to wear a school sweater all day because it was "too inappropriate". My friend, wearing the exact same thing, standing in front of the principal with me, was not chastized at all. And I can't even count the number of times I've been groped because some guy thinks that me wearing a low-cut shirt and making jokes about my breasts means that I'm comfortable with him touching them, or been told that I was a whore based on nothing but what I was wearing, or told that if I ever got raped while dressing like that, then I clearly deserved it for tempting men with my breasts.

Because apparently if you have large breasts then you should only ever wear turtlenecks. BECAUSE IT ISN'T FAIR TO MEN.

[identity profile] relmneiko.livejournal.com 2012-05-03 07:38 am (UTC)(link)
I feel you, sister. I've always felt very uncomfortable wearing even moderately low-cut shirts because I feel like a slut and hate the unwanted attention. And then I get chastised for dressing so modestly, like "you should be more comfortable with your body!" Fuck the world, seriously.

[identity profile] fuchsiascreams.livejournal.com 2012-05-03 07:51 am (UTC)(link)
WTF? It's like you can't fucking win. "WHY DO YOU DRESS SO BORING, YOU SHOULD BE MORE CONFIDENT" when you dress modestly, and "YOU'RE A WHORE, PUT A SHIRT ON" when you don't.

(Anonymous) 2012-05-05 03:50 pm (UTC)(link)
Really? I wonder if that's not a grass is greener situation, because I'm flat and very small/short, and I find it almost impossible to find clothes that fit -- most clothes I try on seem to be designed for bustier women.

I think most clothes are just designed for one very specific "ideal" body type, and it's you don't fit that (regardless of whether you're larger or smaller) you will have problems to some degree.

Total agreement with your second part, though.