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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-05-02 06:51 pm

[ SECRET POST #1947 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1947 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 03 pages, 068 secrets from Secret Submission Post #278.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 1 - not!secrets ], [ 1 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

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(Anonymous) 2012-05-04 06:30 am (UTC)(link)
You have not addressed one single thing I've said about the situation and your conduct has been despicable. I do not need you trying to blame this on me and I refuse to respond further. Your ignorance and callousness is disgusting. I truly hope you have a good long look at yourself in the mirror and think about what a bully actually is.

I can stop my friends from bullying people. They are my peers. It is more serious at the local high school and middle school, I'm sure, but that doesn't mean I can do anything here. With my friends, I have an influence and I'm going to use that to the best of my ability.

You keep saying it's so easy to walk away from and if you lose any friends its your own fault... have you ever actually been targeted online yourself? Have you ever had an account you couldn't just walk away from? Have you ever been afraid of losing your friends, but afraid the bully would find you again too? You're doing nothing but trying to find new and creative ways to blame the victim. Would you blame the victim of any other attack? How did they deserve what they got? If they bitched about it too much did they deserve to lose their friends? Please tell me more about how it's always the victims fault for not doing enough prevention, how it's always their fault if they lose relationships, and how no matter what the attacker has said or done, the victim is really responsible for their own treatment.

I know the victim can take steps to prevent this happening, but that doesn't make them wrong when it does. The attacker is always to blame.

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(Anonymous) 2012-05-04 06:41 am (UTC)(link)
I actually have addressed everything you've said. Multiple times, because all you've done is repeat yourself. That you refuse to listen to anyone who doesn't give you asspats isn't my problem.

No, you really can't stop your friends from doing anything. If you hold such great influence over them, then why'd you lose half of them to a bully in the first place?

Have you ever actually been targeted online yourself?

Yes.

Have you ever had an account you couldn't just walk away from?

No. User accounts are both free and expendable.

Have you ever been afraid of losing your friends, but afraid the bully would find you again too?

Nope, because I'm not a drama addict who is apt to pull the same shit under a different screenname, and I would not lose friends because I would privately message them to let them know what my new screenname is.

I do not need you trying to blame this on me and I refuse to respond further.

Oh good. Because while pointing out all the fallacies in your argument could qualify as an Olympic sport, I have work tomorrow and really need to be getting to bed. But as you're the type who seems to need the last word, we'll see how long your "I'm not responding anymore" schtick lasts. Based on the current pattern, I give you about a 20 minutes.