[ SECRET POST #1954 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1954 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 040 secrets from Secret Submission Post #279.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

Comments

[(Anonymous)]

Children are not "sexualized". They are not born asexual. In fact, even infants have the capability to orgasm. While it sometimes upsets me that I essentially got my sex ed in fandom and I don't think that is how that should happen, the general woman-friendly atmosphere and my own drive to learn meant that I got quite the education, and overall I believe it was a positive one.

I didn't have a word for masturbation for years, and for years I thought it was some sort of terrible disease and I was going to die. This was fucking terrifying to me. This isn't because I was sexualized young, either. It's because no one taught me about the sexuality I had. In fact, self-pleasure wasn't mentioned in sex ed curiculum until I was what, 15? And that's laughably late.

So I'm sorry if it makes you uncomfortable that I might have read your porn when I was 12, but I don't believe that there's something inherently wrong with exploring your sexuality at such an age through something as low-pressure, non-interactive and individual as reading erotica, especially if it has an overall sex-positive tone. At the time it was my only option. Certainly better than having sex before you're ready.

[(Anonymous)]

I'd have to agree. I came from a very conservative family with very conservative values who's idea of sex education was to give me a book on menstruation when I turned thirteen. I figured out the basic idea from what people wouldn't talk about, but I was still mostly clueless.
So there's ten year old me who suddenly discovers masturbation entirely on accident and all I knew was that it felt good, but that I wasn't supposed to talk about it to anybody. That's a pretty sure way to fuck up someone's sexual education.

I ended up getting my sex ed from fandom way later than most. And honestly, a fandom education is much better than none at all. Or teaching kids that sex is baaaad and eviiiiil.

[(Anonymous)]

I'm pretty sure the OC is less concerned about sexual education, and more about the fact that, by lying, you're getting people who may or may not be cool with someone underage reading their smut/looking at their smutty art/rping sexual situations with them to let you do just that with false information...which is a very valid point since there *is* a chance, granted a small one, that they could get into legal trouble because of it.

[(Anonymous)]

This is a great post.

I thought masturbation was this horrible, dirty thing and I was going for hell for it. My mom caught my doing it once when I was very young and didn't even know what it was, and she drilled it into my brain was what I did was dirty and wrong and to never do it again. I had some huge guilt over it, and if it weren't for fandom I probably still would even though I'm nearly a grown ass adult.