[ SECRET POST #1954 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1954 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 02 pages, 040 secrets from Secret Submission Post #279.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

A lot of sections of fandom tend to treat fic as a dialog, thus the constant wank over whether there is an obligation to comment/reply to comments/reply to replies to comments. If the dominant fandom culture in (general) your section of the internet is one that does take that view of fic, it's really, really easy to be uncomfortable at the idea of reading smut written by, or having smut you've written be read by, individuals who are underaged. Your fandom socialization tells you that hey, congrats, you've just opened a dialog about sex with a minor who is in no way related to you.

Whether or not this view of the role of fanfic actually makes any sense is debatable, even if considered separately from the smut dilemme, but it's definitely common.

[cleverthylacine]

Fanfic is totally a dialogue but it's a dialogue with the characters and the world and our conceptions of those things. If I'm talking about how X character would do this sexual thing in public I have to accept that anyone out there could be talking back, full stop, because I have no control over that. But since I don't say anything in fanfic comments that I wouldn't say in a room full of fannish strangers who also might or might not be over 18, I really don't care about it. I don't think that it is wrong to talk about sex in the presence of people under 18, although I would definitely slant my comments in the direction of making sure everyone was OK with the conversation, staying factual in the area of what's safe and possible, and being sure that nobody felt uncomfortable, if I knew they were there. But I try to do that anyway because ignorance about sex isn't limited to people under 18.

What I think is wrong to do with people under 18 is to try to date them, have sex with them or get them into a personal sexual situation with you.

Which is a different thing from talking about whether it's possible for Tavros to top anyone or telling an inexperienced writer that when I read about a penis entering a woman's "womb" it makes me mentally double over in pain because anatomy doesn't work like that.

IDK. I guess what I think is that this kind of socialisation is not helpful to anyone because it's ignoring established facts, like the inability of trying to control who can read material you put up in a public forum that anyone can access.

Also, it completely skeeves me out to think that some of the people who read my stuff are thinking of it as some kind of weird sexual relationship and/or think it's OK to tell me that they fap to it or that they acted it out with their partner. I don't want or need to know about that!