[ SECRET POST #1956 ]

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⌈ Secret Post #1956 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.
[They Might Be Giants]


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02.
[Uraboku]


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03.
[A Game of Thrones, Sansa/Littlefinger]


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04.
[ILLBLEED, Kingdom Hearts]


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10.
[Game of Thrones]


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11. http://i47.tinypic.com/5fjfpl.jpg
[not explicit porn but erring on caution; live action]


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12. http://i46.tinypic.com/2ug01sk.jpg
[not explicit porn but erring on caution; illustrated]


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13. [SPOILERS for Mass Effect 3]



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14. [SPOILERS for ASOIAF]



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15. [SPOILERS for Legend of Korra]



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16. [SPOILERS for Persona 4]



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17. [TRIGGER WARNING for incest]



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18. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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19. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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20. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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Notes:

If you or anyone you know in fandom writes poetry, check this out. You may be being plagiarized. Note: Please do NOT hassle the publishing company itself. They've agreed to pull the book; we're waiting for it to come down from all the eBook sites. We still don't know the entire contents of the book, though - or who else has been stolen from (there is a clear fandom-author connection, however).


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Comments

[(Anonymous)]

D/s relationships or wanting a d/s relationship is normal, anon. It might not be the most common thing, but there's nothing wrong with you. If your friend thinks you're be a puppet or abused, they don't grasp the concept of d/s at all or consensual nonconsent. Try explaining to her about safewords and that when done properly, this only goes exactly as far as you want it to go IRL and no further. http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Consent_%28BDSM%29#Consensual_non-consent

[(Anonymous)]

Thanks for your nice answer. :)

At the moment I still try to find the courage to talk again about this theme because she is my best friend. I want to talk about my problems with her and hear her opinion but I see that she still struggles with her new picture of me. She trys to accept it and makes jokes about my sexuality but I see that she still repulsive by this.

It doesn't help that she has problems to trust people and especially men. So an relationship based on so much trust is hard to accept for her. :/

I really hope that it will help when I tell her more about the rules...

[(Anonymous)]

I understand how others could be shocked. Seeing a friend appear with bruises or marks on them or sth... if that person doesn't understand how somebody else might have wanted those or how they might have found those pleasurable, and lots of people don't understand that, they're ofc going to see it as "abuse." They might even start saying you're abused without you realizing it or admitting it.

But yes it would probably help to tell her about the rules and structure to it, and that both you and your partner have to understand and discuss and agree to them beforehand. You're not just going into this blind and neither are they. Lots of people don't know that there are rules and think people just live that way all the time and want to be abused or sth and nothing could be more wrong.