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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-05-11 06:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #1956 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1956 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.
[They Might Be Giants]


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02.
[Uraboku]


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03.
[A Game of Thrones, Sansa/Littlefinger]


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04.
[ILLBLEED, Kingdom Hearts]


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10.
[Game of Thrones]


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11. http://i47.tinypic.com/5fjfpl.jpg
[not explicit porn but erring on caution; live action]


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12. http://i46.tinypic.com/2ug01sk.jpg
[not explicit porn but erring on caution; illustrated]


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13. [SPOILERS for Mass Effect 3]



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14. [SPOILERS for ASOIAF]



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15. [SPOILERS for Legend of Korra]



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16. [SPOILERS for Persona 4]



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17. [TRIGGER WARNING for incest]



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18. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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19. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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20. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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Notes:

If you or anyone you know in fandom writes poetry, check this out. You may be being plagiarized. Note: Please do NOT hassle the publishing company itself. They've agreed to pull the book; we're waiting for it to come down from all the eBook sites. We still don't know the entire contents of the book, though - or who else has been stolen from (there is a clear fandom-author connection, however).


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(Anonymous) 2012-05-12 12:24 am (UTC)(link)
I'm so sorry you are going through this right now. I'm sorry your friend said those things, I'm sorry your upbringing made you ashamed about this part of you, and I'm sorry for everything you are feeling. Your friend is wrong, though. D/s relationships are just as normal as vanilla ones, though less common. And a healthy D/s relationship is consensual and has boundaries set up by both partners and is not in any way abusive. You can still be a strong, independent woman if you are submissive and in a D/s relationship.

I totally sympathize. My experience is similar though from the opposite perspective. I myself am a dominant. It took me a long time to accept that part of myself. I too grew up in a conservative family. Girls didn't want sex, sex or anything close outside of marriage was not okay, and girls were to be the submissive partner in a vanilla marriage relationship. Wanting to be in control was definitely not okay.

It took a long time, several miserable vanilla relationships, and a whole lot of therapy before I was finally able to accept that part of myself. I'm in a happy relationship right now with a man who is just as much of a submissive as I am a dominant.

[identity profile] fierceawakening.livejournal.com 2012-05-12 12:30 am (UTC)(link)
I was going to say something, but then you said all of it. That, exactly.

[identity profile] jazmin-firewing.livejournal.com 2012-05-12 01:51 am (UTC)(link)
This is a good comment and you should feel good about it.
I am glad that you were able to accept all parts of yourself and find a healthy way to express yourself sexually, despite your upbringing.