fandomsecrets | [ SECRET POST #1956 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1956 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[They Might Be Giants]

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[Uraboku]

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[A Game of Thrones, Sansa/Littlefinger]

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[ILLBLEED, Kingdom Hearts]

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[Game of Thrones]

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11. http://i47.tinypic.com/5fjfpl.jpg
[not explicit porn but erring on caution; live action]

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12. http://i46.tinypic.com/2ug01sk.jpg
[not explicit porn but erring on caution; illustrated]

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[ ----- SPOILERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]

13. [SPOILERS for Mass Effect 3]

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14. [SPOILERS for ASOIAF]

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15. [SPOILERS for Legend of Korra]

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16. [SPOILERS for Persona 4]

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[ ----- TRIGGERY SECRETS AHEAD ----- ]

17. [TRIGGER WARNING for incest]

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18. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]

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19. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]

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20. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]

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Notes:

If you or anyone you know in fandom writes poetry, check this out. You may be being plagiarized. Note: Please do NOT hassle the publishing company itself. They've agreed to pull the book; we're waiting for it to come down from all the eBook sites. We still don't know the entire contents of the book, though - or who else has been stolen from (there is a clear fandom-author connection, however).

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As many others have said here, there is nothing wrong with being a sexual submissive. Because D/s is often portrayed in the crime-drama way of 'of course she got herself killed, she was into S&M' or 'all dominant men are sociopaths who want to control women', a lot of people who don't have these kinds of urges only understand it in a very shallow way. Rape is about control--D/s is about trust, and exploring power dynamics in a safe, loving environment where you can let go and just focus on being yourself, whether that part of yourself is being the dominant and telling your partner what to do and trusting them to do only the things they feel comfortable with, or if you're more of a submissive type who finds comfort and solace in being able to serve someone else and test your limits without feeling threatened or like some sort of failure if you have to take a step back.

I am sorry, however, that your best friend is being so judgemental and seems to not even be considering your feelings when she approaches you about your newly-found desires; it's always a terrible thing when someone you thought you could trust betrays you with something so close to the core of your being. But, don't let her reaction make you ashamed of yourself--you are who you are, and if you are confident in that someone is sure to find you who not only can accept this about you, but will welcome it--even if that person is not a romantic partner.

Anyway, I do wish you the best of luck, and if you do need someone to talk to...I know I'm just a stranger on the Internet, but feel free to drop me a PM or something if you would like (though that would defeat the whole anonymous posting thing.)

[ SECRET POST #1956 ]

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