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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-05-11 06:58 pm

[ SECRET POST #1956 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1956 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

01.
[They Might Be Giants]


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02.
[Uraboku]


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03.
[A Game of Thrones, Sansa/Littlefinger]


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04.
[ILLBLEED, Kingdom Hearts]


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10.
[Game of Thrones]


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11. http://i47.tinypic.com/5fjfpl.jpg
[not explicit porn but erring on caution; live action]


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12. http://i46.tinypic.com/2ug01sk.jpg
[not explicit porn but erring on caution; illustrated]


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13. [SPOILERS for Mass Effect 3]



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14. [SPOILERS for ASOIAF]



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15. [SPOILERS for Legend of Korra]



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16. [SPOILERS for Persona 4]



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17. [TRIGGER WARNING for incest]



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18. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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19. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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20. [TRIGGER WARNING for rape]



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Notes:

If you or anyone you know in fandom writes poetry, check this out. You may be being plagiarized. Note: Please do NOT hassle the publishing company itself. They've agreed to pull the book; we're waiting for it to come down from all the eBook sites. We still don't know the entire contents of the book, though - or who else has been stolen from (there is a clear fandom-author connection, however).


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(Anonymous) 2012-05-12 11:45 am (UTC)(link)
Actually, I did mean it "for being kinky". But having read the explanations below I realise there are actually rules and boundaries. In which case my rudeness was uncalled for; apologies to the OP & everyone else. It still squicks the hell out of me, but a) that's no call to be rude and b) I understand it slightly better.

[identity profile] fierceawakening.livejournal.com 2012-05-12 02:14 pm (UTC)(link)
Thanks for thinking more about it. There are a lot of people who jump to condemning people for what they think about, which I've always thought was not only unfair but also pretty strange. It's probably easier for a lot of people now that talking openly about kink and writing stories about it are common in some circles, like fandom. But I know that when I was growing up, I thought I was crazy and sick. I went to various therapists, and most of them told me to leave right there because kinkiness isn't a mental disorder.

(Well, okay, technically sadomasochism could be, according to the DSM-IV. (Is the DSM-V out yet? Did they take it out? I heard they were probably going to.) But even that definition was very narrow and most people don't fit it. No one ever diagnosed me with the pathological form of it -- even when I came to them saying I thought there was something wrong with me.)

What I do think, having been in a couple of relationships that had D/s in them, is that people really need to be careful. It's easy to fantasize that the more intense the power dynamic, the better the relationship. Because hey, if X excites me, more X is more awesome! But in the real world, relationships are complicated and involve more than getting your kink on. I wouldn't recommend people try intense D/s until they've tried some less intense stuff first and know from real life experience what they like and get a feel for who they can trust and who they can't. Organized BDSM communities try to help people with this, but it's always wise to be prudent and careful. It's much easier to turn the volume up once you know you're safe than to turn it back down once you're not sure of that.