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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-05-17 06:47 pm

[ SECRET POST #1962 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1962 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Ferris Bueller's Day Off]


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03.
[Community]


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04.
[Big Time Rush]


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05.
[Avengers]


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06.
[The Decemberists]


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07.
[Tim Minchin]


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08.
[The Lizzie Bennet Diaries]


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09.
[Community]


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10.
[The Hunger Games]


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11.
[Nell: The Day Before]


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12.
[Devil Survivor]


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13.
[Homeland]


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14.
[Pippin]


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15.
[Portal 2 & Left 4 Dead]


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16.
[The Avengers, 30 Rock, Psych]


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17.
[FFX]


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18.
[Mad Men]


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19.
[Legend of Korra]


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20.
[Faust: Love of the Damned]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 020 secrets from Secret Submission Post #280.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 1 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 1 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

[identity profile] megalomaniageek.livejournal.com 2012-05-18 05:55 am (UTC)(link)
There's something, I dunno, safe and comforting about a friendship that you know won't turn romantic. I don't like that phrasing because it makes it seem like romance is bad, which is not what I mean at all

Don't worry, I get it 100%. It's not about the romance, I think, it's about inevitable change when you want things to just be the way they are. I'm not bracing for a shocking swerve unless I'm expecting it to show up any minute.

I have a lot of fondness for male-female friendships growing into romance (I'm a huge sucker for the Childhood Friends trope) but I really must insist on it being right for the characters and the story, and for there to be buildup first. I get really pissed off by the principle of writers clearly seeing all male-female interaction as inherently UST-filled even when it's not.
Like, I was just with my husband playing Heavy Rain, and both male-female detective pairs inexplicably kiss (or one almost-kiss depending on player choice) at some point late in the story and seriously where the hell did that come from. It wasn't built up at all beyond "he's a man and she's a woman and they've been on an adventure together" and it seemed pretty wrong for the mood. I mean, who gets hot and bothered looking for their dead son's killer?

[identity profile] intrigueing.livejournal.com 2012-05-18 01:35 pm (UTC)(link)
Oh yeah, I do love the childhood friends thing. I guess because it feels more purposeful when they develop an attraction as they sexually mature, instead of just "hey I have romantic feelings now".