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[ SECRET POST #1976 ]

⌈ Secret Post #1976 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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[Ivanhoe]

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[NHL: Chicago Blackhawks]

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[Being Human US]

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[Thor]

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[Glee]

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[azealia banks ft lazy jay]

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[DBSK]

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[Stand By Me]

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[Glee/Game of Thrones]

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[Torchwood]

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[Avengers, Loki]

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[Game of Thrones]

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[Sakamichi no Apollon/Sex Pistols]

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[The Neverending Story]

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[Grey Is]

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[Game of Thrones]

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[Keane]

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[Drive]

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[Dallas]

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[Lisa Eldridge]

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Notes:

Moving to Dreamwidth on June 2nd. Official announcement here for anyone who missed it!

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Psh. Ignore those idiots. It's mainly angry little virgins who've only seen boobs in anime and maybe real life porn. As such, their opinions on the matter really aren't worth paying attention to.

Ouch.
Why did you have to use virgin as if it's something bad to be? As an insult. Now I feel shitty like OP.

/a girl who has weird boobs and is a virgin and is extremely self concious about both

Aww, don't let the haters get you down Anon! Being a virgin is not an insult, and people who use it as such are just not thinking or plain ol' dumb. There's nothing wrong with being who you are and doing what you want.

/a woman who has really weird boobs and is a virgin and has worked really hard to be totally cool with those facts

A virgin is not a bad thing to be. A virgin who claims to be qualified to judge people's nude bodies and/or behavior during sex IS a bad thing to be. It's tantamount to someone who has no experience in architecture thinking they're qualified to judge the soundness of a building's structure.

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Sex and virginity shouldn't be used in this example at all then. A doctor who examines breasts, yes. A doctor can be a virgin and have seen many sets of breasts. A person who isn't a virgin can have slept with the same woman their entire lives who has surgically enhanced DDs.

Also, ugly breasts is just an opinion. No one said they dont function as breasts. I'm sure nipples and milk glands are intact. But anyone can say they're gross, unattractive, etc.

(DA) But you can be a virgin and still have experience with seeing or handling breasts. Virgin shouldn't have entered the equation at all and was just thrown in as an extra insult.

But you can be a virgin and still have experience with seeing or handling breasts.

Sure you can, but that's like saying "since all chefs can boil water, everyone who can boil water is a chef." The fact remains that the loudest critics of women's in situations like this tend to be the people with the least experience with/exposure to women's bodies.

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But are you saying non-virgins are allowed to judge other people's bodies? Because I don't think so (Trust me, I know some shallow people who aren't, as a matter of fact, virgins)

No, of course not, but having absolutely no idea what you're talking about and your only exposure to naked breasts coming from internet porn makes it ten times more obnoxious, IMO.

Let me put it this way: If you judge people's breasts and have experience, well, then, you're a shallow douchebag who can't appreciate anything that looks slightly different than your ideal. If you judge people's breasts and don't have experience, then you're not only a shallow douchebag, you're a shallow douchebag who doesn't even know what real breasts look like in the first place.

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I'm a virgin but I've seen a fair number of breasts in real life. On of my favorite memories is my friends and I at a public bath, full birthday suit, and playing 'I Never...'

Virginity =/= never being around a wide range of breasts. All it means in my case is I've never touched another person's breasts.

this.

I don't think

visp meant to be degrading, but I hate it when the word "virgin" is casually thrown around as a ~bad thing~. I'm not really embarrassed/feeling bad, more just annoyed that society has deemed sexual activeness to be the norm and many frown upon those who choose to do otherwise (whether they are asexual, simply dislike sex, choose chastity or celibacy, are taking a break from it/don't feel ready to try it, whatever)

Personally I am celibate and have never had sex...I know decent people respect my choices, but a lot of people look down on me and others for it. Being a virgin is NOT a bad thing, at all.

(s)he quite clearly did, judging from the absolute refusal to apologise and the downright rudeness with which objectors are being treated.

Yeah, you may be right. (It's been a little while since I've kept track of this particular thread.) I wrote that comment after reading

visp's first comment and not the rest of the thread.

Also LOL WOW I can't believe I wrote "celibate" in my comment. I meant to write "chaste". hahahahaha woops.......

Idk, I've seen a lot of weird boobs in porn, even really small ones.

Yeah, but the majority are big round perky boobs. Smaller ones seem to be found more for specific fetishes.

Not that large ones don't get criticized, either..

Hence the "maybe real life porn" comment. And you're right, watch enough real life porn and you'll see all sorts.

Yeeeah, back off on the virgin thing, ok? You're no better than those people if you start that shit up.

There's nothing wrong with being a virgin, but the sorts that get the most "OMG women's naked bodies shouldn't look like that" by and large do tend to be the ones that have very little experience with naked women's bodies.

So there's nothing wrong with being a virgin except for when there is. And that's when it's okay to use it as an insult. Got it.

lol @ angry little virgins getting pissed at you for telling the truth.

telling the truth doesn't have to mean being a jerk. congrats to you, though, on being a jerk WITHOUT telling the truth.

lolz bean ur such a jerk

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