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Case ([personal profile] case) wrote in [community profile] fandomsecrets2012-06-14 06:48 pm

[ SECRET POST #1990 ]


⌈ Secret Post #1990 ⌋

Warning: Some secrets are NOT worksafe and may contain SPOILERS.

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02.
[Calvin and Hobbes]


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03.
[Golden Sun]


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04.
[Downton Abbey]


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05.
[Beyond: Two Souls]


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06.
[Veep]


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07.
[John Cooper Clarke]


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08.
[Kristen Stewart]


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09.
[A Song of Ice and Fire/Game of Thrones]


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10.
[The Social Network]


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11.
[Ray Bradbury]


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12.
[Protomen]


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13.
[Hamish & Andy]


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14.
[Falling Skies]


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15.
[Hetalia]


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16.
[Legend of Korra]


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17.
[Dragon Age: Origins]


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18.
[Minecraft]


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19.
[Jojo's Bizarre Adventure: Diamond is Unbreakable]


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20.
[Avengers]


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Notes:

Secrets Left to Post: 01 pages, 025 secrets from Secret Submission Post #284.
Secrets Not Posted: [ 0 - broken links ], [ 0 - not!secrets ], [ 0 - not!fandom ], [ 0 - too big ], [ 0 - repeat ], [ 1 - posted twice ].
Current Secret Submissions Post: here.
Suggestions, comments, and concerns should go here.

OP

(Anonymous) 2012-06-15 12:26 am (UTC)(link)
(TW: Depression and suicide)

First of all, thank you everyone who replied.

I don't want to go into details about what it was about me that made me difficult, but there were some particularly rough patches in my adoloscence in which I took out my frustration on those around me (and even when I didn't, I was still clearly miserable and it isn't easy for parent to see there child like that).

My parents were (and still are) incredibly supportive and loving, and I know for a fact that I would be dead if they hadn't been. It's just...I feel so bad for all the things I put them through over the years.

It looks like this brought up some old feelings for people, and for that I'm really sorry.

Re: OP

[personal profile] anonymouslyyours 2012-06-15 12:53 am (UTC)(link)
I'm glad you're doing better and for what it's worth I'm sure your parents know how grateful you are for their love and support (though it never hurts to tell them so). And don't worry about bringing up feelings, for me at least, it's a little nice knowing I'm not the only one who wonders about that.
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Re: OP

[personal profile] lirren 2012-06-15 01:40 am (UTC)(link)
OP, first let me tell you that every parent has their moments of "What the hell was I THINKING", but as the parent of a child who has a number of different issues, I can tell you that that's just what they are - moments. And after that moment passes, I go right back to thinking that even if I could go back in time, I wouldn't change things. Although he pushes me to the limit sometimes, and occasionally makes me absolutely bonkers, I love my son so much that it makes my chest ache and I would never willingly exchange him for a child free life.

Re: OP

(Anonymous) 2012-06-15 02:43 am (UTC)(link)
OP, I had the exact same situation. Well, okay, not exact, but I too went through rough times in my adolescence and only really survived thanks to my parents.

I agree with what other people said about the regrets and "what if" moments being temporary and not something that directly affect how much your parents love you.

Parents are human too and say or think things they regret later.